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Grief counselors and therapists in Tulsa, OK

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Top grief and loss counseling therapists in Tulsa, OK

Navigating grief after losing a loved one is deeply personal, and Tulsa residents can access compassionate grief therapy through Headway's network of 495 providers. We offer evidence-based treatments including grief counseling, Prolonged Grief Disorder Therapy, and support for anticipatory grief, available both virtually and in-person. Free consultations are available to help you find the right fit for your healing journey.

Charlie Moore

Charlie Moore

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I look at therapy as a collaboration. I am here to listen without judgment, understand what you are experiencing, and help you find practical solutions that fit your life.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Dr. Jason Wilson

Dr. Jason Wilson

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I am collaborative but also willing to hold accountability and provide supportive feedback and encouragement.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Direct, Warm
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
Kylee Parks

Kylee Parks

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I bring real energy to sessions — I think therapy works best when it feels like a genuine partnership, not a performance.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Identity issues
Creative, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Patricia Monterrey

Patricia Monterrey

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I strive to work collaboratively with my patients to identify personal strengths and skills that can be used to enhance the ability to cope with stressors, diminish life difficulties, and improve relationships.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Brooke Berthiaume

Brooke Berthiaume

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


Hello and welcome! I'm Brooke, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I earned both my Bachelor's and Master's degrees in Social Work in 2005 and 2014, respectively. Prior to focusing solely on providing therapy, I worked as a medical social worker in hospital and hospice settings. As such, I have had the privilege of supporting people through some of the most difficult and vulnerable seasons of their lives. Additionally, I have a passion for providing care to Veterans, first responders and their families, and all helping professionals. I consider it an honor to be trusted with each person's story, and to work beside them in working towards solutions or adaptive resolutions.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression
Creative, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Alicia Jarman

Alicia Jarman

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“We'll focus on what's making everyday life difficult while also understanding the experiences and emotions underneath those struggles.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions, Depression
Humorous, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Amy Bartel

Amy Bartel

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach honors your worldview and strengths as well as your expressed goals and pace in the healing process.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Eating disorders
Creative, Empowering, Holistic
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Monica Perez

Monica Perez

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • Oklahoma


I believe healthcare works best when patients feel heard and respected. I take time to listen to your concerns, explain things clearly, and involve you in every decision about your care. My goal is to create a comfortable environment where you feel confident asking questions and actively participating in your health.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Megan Deitz

Megan Deitz

Therapist

Virtual • Tulsa, OK


I am a licensed clinical social worker in Tulsa who built my career in community mental health, walking alongside people working through substance use, anxiety, and depression. I believe real change starts once someone feels safe enough to be honest about where they are.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Infertility
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Kelli Ellis

Kelli Ellis

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My job is to come along and turn your box upside down and offer you strategies, resources, and coping skills to help you see a different perspective.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Direct, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
ShawnQuita Walker

ShawnQuita Walker

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma City, OK


“My therapeutic approach is grounded in the belief that each person's story is unique, and within those narratives lie the keys to understanding and transformation.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers
Sheila Cubine

Sheila Cubine

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach is person-centered. I meet you where you are. I am competent using CBT/DBT, SFBT, Trauma informed, narrative therapy and Internal Family Systems.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression, End of life care
Inquisitive, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 14 insurance carriers
Lauren Byars-Griffin

Lauren Byars-Griffin

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach to therapy is to help you understand and process what you are struggling with in life and assist in developing goals to achieve improved results for a healthier and happier you.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Affirming, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers
Nikole Selsor

Nikole Selsor

Therapist

Virtual • Tulsa, OK


“I am not a sugar-coated counselor; I work a lot in reality therapy which helps you be seen and heard by me.”
Grief or loss, Cultural & ethnic issues, Family issues, LGBTQIA+, Relationship issues
Direct, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jamee Greenwood

Jamee Greenwood

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma City, OK


“My approach to therapy is a holistic one, combining the mind, body and spirit, so that a person can heal from the inside out.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Rebecca Clinton

Rebecca Clinton

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“This is YOUR journey and if at any moment you feel we aren't leading in a path that you feel is productive then please let me know.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, End of life care, Family issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Tracy Fountain MS, Lpc

Tracy Fountain MS, Lpc

Therapist

Virtual • Tahlequah, OK


“I believe that meaningful change happens when people feel genuinely accepted while also being gently supported to grow and move forward at their own pace.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers
Simonne Jones

Simonne Jones

Therapist

Virtual • Tulsa, OK


“I work with children, adolescents, young female adults whom are in distress, confused and need help with coping skills.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Creative, Holistic, Open-minded
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Sandra Mace

Sandra Mace

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


I'm Sandra, an LCSW who believes everyone deserves an individualized approach to care — because everyone's story is different. I work with individuals navigating anxiety, trauma, grief, life transitions, and a wide range of other challenges, including those tied to identity and cultural background. I value open communication and want you to feel genuinely heard, respected, and supported. If you're ready to explore what's getting in your way and build real tools for change, I'd love to connect.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Pa'Shence Young

Pa'Shence Young

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach is warm, collaborative, and focused on equipping you with practical tools and emotional clarity.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 10 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Lari Smith

Lari Smith

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


My name is Lari Smith, and I’ve spent nearly 15 years helping individuals and families navigate life’s challenges and build healthier, more fulfilling lives. I hold multiple graduate‐level degrees, including a Master of Science in Human Resources (2006), a Master’s Certificate in Addiction Counseling (2016), and a Master of Science in Psychological Services (2017). I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Oklahoma and am currently under supervision for my LADC.

Before entering private practice, I worked for the Department of Human Services and later served as a school counselor in rural K–8 schools. These experiences deepened my passion for supporting children, families, and individuals facing complex or overwhelming life circumstances. Today, I work with clients of all ages and have a special appreciation for both children and older adults.

My therapeutic approach is eclectic, but I frequently draw from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help clients understand the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. I have experience treating a wide range of concerns, including adjustment disorders, anxiety, depression, child sexual abuse, PTSD, Borderline Personality Disorder, and other mental health challenges. I also bring personal insight into chronic pain after experiencing a serious car accident in 2017 that resulted in multiple broken bones.

I currently practice in a rural Oklahoma community and am accepting new clients. I offer virtual sessions and accept insurance, with a full list available through Headway.

Outside of my work as a therapist, I’ve been married for 28 years and have three adult children. I enjoy spending time with my family, especially my four‐month‐old granddaughter—and I love baking.

If you’d like to explore whether we’re a good fit, I offer a free consultation. I’d be honored to support you on your journey—reach out today and let’s get started.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Humorous, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Dr. Sinmiloluwa Adeleye-Onuche

Dr. Sinmiloluwa Adeleye-Onuche

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I utilize a holistic, client-centered, and strengths-based approach because I believe that one size doesn't fit all.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Holistic, Open-minded
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Norman Markland

Norman Markland

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Oklahoma City, OK


“I specialize in a Trauma Based Cognitive Behavioral and Solution Focused Therapy approach to unpacking life's difficult moments and making meaning of the pain you have experience.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Brittany Defillo

Brittany Defillo

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe therapy should be a safe space where you can show up as your authentic self without fear of judgment.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Creative, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Nolanda Bush Msw, Lcsw

Nolanda Bush Msw, Lcsw

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


Hello and welcome to therapy. You are one step closer on your journey to achieving your goals, passions, and intentions. You and I will develop a therapeutic relationship as you work through trauma, anxiety, depression, and other areas that you would like growth in. You will utilize the strengths that you already have, and keep expanding on those. It is my job to create a safe, open, and person-centered environment. I look forward to working with you on your healing journey! Keep going and growing.

Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Andrea Manus

Andrea Manus

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


Are you feeling overwhelmed with life? Does the never-ending ticker tape of to-do's running through your head leave you feeling physically exhausted and emotionally depleted? Do you feel pulled in a million directions, unable to fit it all in? Are you struggling to keep up with your relationships, work and health? Is it hard to be kind to yourself? Are you struggling as a parent, trying to get it all right but not sure what to do?

I'm Andrea, a combat-deployed veteran, part of an active-duty military family, and a twin mom who's spent years learning how to work with her own ADHD instead of against it. That personal history shapes how I show up with clients: direct, warm, and genuinely curious about what makes you tick. I love problem-solving and getting to the heart of what's really going on so you can feel better, sooner, not months from now. I work with individuals and couples navigating anxiety, burnout, ADHD, depression, trauma, and the everyday overwhelm of trying to hold work, relationships, health, and parenting together at once. If you're a parent trying to get it "right," a couple looking to communicate without the same old fight, or someone whose brain just doesn't work like the productivity blogs assume, I get it, and I can help.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Jacquelynn Blackwell

Jacquelynn Blackwell

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach to therapy is compassionate, collaborative, and deeply human. I strive to create a safe, supportive, and affirming space where clients feel genuinely seen and heard.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Dr. Kendal Humes

Dr. Kendal Humes

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I operate from a 'tough love' therapeutic approach in my work. This means I encourage individuals to explore their irrational beliefs, dysfunctional emotions and behaviors...”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Energetic, Humorous
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
YaLonda Berry

YaLonda Berry

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe that meaningful change begins with a strong therapeutic relationship, and I work collaboratively with you to create a supportive, individualized plan.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Creative, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Catherine Herring

Catherine Herring

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach is eclectic and deeply personalized. I draw from cognitive-behavioral therapy, motivational interviewing, mindfulness & meditation, positive psychology, EMDR & EFT approaches, and inner-work therapy...”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Family issues
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Maria Rozell

Maria Rozell

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe therapy should be a safe, supportive space where you can be honest about what you are experiencing without fear of judgment.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship issues, Stress management
Direct, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jennifer Bannister

Jennifer Bannister

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe in empowering children and families while building a strong foundation of connection that is essential to the therapeutic process.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Shannon Fincher

Shannon Fincher

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I see therapy as a true partnership. My approach is person-centered and humanistic, meaning I follow your lead and trust that you already have what it takes.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Challenging, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Christopher Nash

Christopher Nash

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“Chris believes in a collaborative approach where clients feel understood and empowered throughout their journey towards healing and wholeness.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jennifer Conner

Jennifer Conner

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My goal as a therapist isn't to fix you, but to help you reconnect with your own innate resilience and wisdom.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Challenging, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Jennifer Kopecky

Jennifer Kopecky

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


I'm an LCSW with expertise in brain and behavior and additional specialty in addiction

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Creative, Direct, Solution-oriented
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
Tasharika Njeleka

Tasharika Njeleka

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I work with people to enhance their problem-solving skills and help find solutions to life's challenges.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers
Dr. Jennifer Doyle

Dr. Jennifer Doyle

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Yukon, OK


“One take away that I would like every one of my clients to gain from our therapy sessions is that they feel empowered by their resilience and motivated to grow as a person.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Infertility
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Shiann Metheny

Shiann Metheny

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“You will leave our sessions feeling heard and with some resource or strategy to help you process and learn new skills to practice and grow in our time between sessions.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Depression, Family issues, Identity issues
Holistic, Humorous, Participatory
Accepts 3 insurance carriers
David Clark

David Clark

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“Every session will end with two questions. "Have we learned anything here today?" and "What's going to be different this week, because if nothing changes, nothing changes."”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Depression, Family issues, PTSD
Humorous, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

About our therapists located within 20 miles of Tulsa, OK who help people navigate grief and loss

Number of therapists within 20 miles of Tulsa, OK
There are over 25 therapists in Tulsa, OK accepting new patients.
25+
Average years in practice
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11 years
Top specialties offered
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  • 100%Anxiety
  • 100%Grief or loss
  • 92%Depression
  • 88%Trauma
  • 84%Stress management
Insurances accepted
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  • 100%Aetna
  • 96%Cigna
  • 96%Carelon Behavioral Health
  • 68%Ascension
  • 64%Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma
Languages spoken
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  • 100%English
  • 4%Spanish
How they see their clients
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  • 100%In-person or online
Provider gender
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  • 80%Woman
  • 20%Man
License types
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  • 72%Licensed Professional Counselor
  • 20%Licensed Clinical Social Worker
  • 4%Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist
  • 4%Psychologist
Treatment approaches
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  • 96%Individual therapy
  • 36%Couples therapy
  • 36%Family therapy
  • 28%Child or adolescent therapy

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