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Grief counselors and therapists in San Mateo, CA

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Top grief and loss counseling therapists in San Mateo, CA

San Mateo residents facing bereavement can find compassionate grief therapy with Headway's 6,017 licensed providers. We offer evidence-based support including Complicated Grief Treatment, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and specialized counseling for loss of spouse, parent, child, or sibling. Virtual and in-person sessions are available with flexible scheduling to support your healing journey.

Rachel Navarro

Rachel Navarro

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My style is warm, interactive, and strictly non-stigmatizing. I believe you are the expert of your own story, and I act as a partner in uncovering the strengths you already possess.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Samantha Abbott

Samantha Abbott

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I approach things with an inquisitive and strength-based lens, and love partnering with my clients to help them find solutions to problems they might be facing.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Oladunni Amiri

Oladunni Amiri

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“I believe every person's story is unique, and my approach focuses on uncovering the root causes of mental health struggles like anxiety, ADHD, trauma, & depression.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Amanda Pifer

Amanda Pifer

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My style is compassionate, curious, collaborative, and authentic, with a healthy appreciation for humor.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Challenging, Humorous, Inquisitive
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Oluchi Ofoegbu

Oluchi Ofoegbu

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My hope is to empower you through identifying your inner strength, reassess, develop, enhance and support more adaptive patterns of thinking and behavior to situations.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression, End of life care
Creative, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Inna Babakhanyan

Inna Babakhanyan

Therapist

Virtual • Pasadena, CA


We are not meant to carry the entirety of life’s weight alone! I believe that mental health should be very much prioritized to reach true contentment. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a passion for healing and growth. In therapy, we will collaborate on developing the best coping skills for your symptoms and concerns. We will navigate through emotions and work to maintain balance. I aim to provide supportive comfort, as well as challenge, in order to strive for the greatest version of yourself.

I received a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology and Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy. With over six years experience in the field, I have utilized a variety of therapeutic approaches to assess and treat individuals struggling with stress management, adjustment, anxiety, depression, trauma, grief and loss, low self-esteem, etc.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Identity issues
Empowering, Participatory, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Lisa Jorgensen-Mattmann

Lisa Jorgensen-Mattmann

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Getting to know your strengths will be a priority. Next, we will work on setting attainable goals and work together, course correct when needed, to achieve your goals.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Kommunication That Works

Kommunication That Works

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach is collaborative, structured, and attachment-informed, focusing on building coping skills, improving communication, increasing insight, and supporting measurable progress toward treatment goals.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Direct, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Ann Eicker

Ann Eicker

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My goal is to help you feel grounded, supported, and empowered to create meaningful change—whether you're adjusting to new challenges, navigating motherhood, or working through trauma.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Identity issues
Affirming, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
C. Eric Erlenbush

C. Eric Erlenbush

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I use practical, evidence-based tools to help reduce anxiety and stress through structured, collaborative work rather than talk alone.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, LGBTQIA+
Direct, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Elida Guzman

Elida Guzman

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe in helping people gain self-awareness and discover their strengths, so they can overcome challenges and grow.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Holistic, Open-minded
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
Keisha Brown

Keisha Brown

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Clients often describe me as warm and steady, someone who helps them feel understood before they even know how to put things into words.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Affirming, Creative, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Tina Gillems

Tina Gillems

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I like to use the following Evidence based modalities such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Solution Focused therapy, Person-Centered therapy, and Motivational interviewing.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Karen Randles

Karen Randles

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I have an empathetic and warm disposition. My goal is to create an atmosphere of non-judgmental, unconditional positive regard...”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Panic disorders
Holistic, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Dr. Ady Benyishay

Dr. Ady Benyishay

Therapist

Virtual • California


I am a licensed clinical psychologist (PsyD) with extensive experience working in residential treatment, sober living, and private practice settings since 2010. My career began as an intern in an eating disorder residential program, later expanding into adolescent dual-diagnosis treatment. Alongside completing my doctorate in clinical psychology, I launched my private practice, where I continue to work with clients through Telehealth. Currently, I also work in a sober living facility, supporting adults facing addiction and co-occurring mental health challenges.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Direct, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Jazmin Cohen

Jazmin Cohen

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My therapeutic style is working collaboratively with you and empowering you to change your unwanted feelings and behaviors.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Maternal mental health
Affirming, Direct, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Paul Kalkin

Paul Kalkin

Therapist

Virtual • California


I was always drawn to people who went unseen or unheard. Others told me I had a calm voice and that they could tell me anything. That led to a lifelong study of how people free themselves from their own patterns, later deepened by psychoanalysis and professional work in eating disorders, addiction treatment, and managed care settings like Kaiser.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Challenging, Direct, Humorous
Accepts 12 insurance carriers
Thomas Moore

Thomas Moore

Therapist

Virtual • California


I’m Thomas Moore, LPCC, a licensed professional clinical counselor providing therapy for individuals navigating anxiety, trauma, emotional overwhelm, identity development, and complex relational patterns. Many of the people I work with feel stuck in repeating cycles such as overthinking, people pleasing, emotional shutdown, intense reactions, or difficulty maintaining stable relationships even when they logically understand what they should do. My goal is to help you translate insight into real change.

My approach is structured and compassionate. I integrate evidence based methods including cognitive restructuring, emotional regulation training, interpersonal effectiveness skills, and trauma informed therapy. Sessions focus on understanding why your brain reacts the way it does and building practical tools you can actually use outside the therapy room. This is not only about talking through problems but learning how to respond differently when they show up in real life.

I work well with clients who want more than passive support and are ready to build skills, increase self awareness, and interrupt patterns that no longer serve them.

What clients should know before starting

Therapy with me is collaborative and active and you will learn strategies rather than only venting. We will work on understanding both the emotional and neurological side of your reactions. Sessions focus on present day functioning while also addressing past experiences that still affect you. I may gently challenge patterns when it supports growth while maintaining a supportive and respectful space. Progress often comes from small repeated changes rather than sudden breakthroughs.

If you are looking for therapy that combines validation with practical change, we will likely work well together.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Dr. Kyle Glover

Dr. Kyle Glover

Psychologist

Virtual & in-person • San Diego, CA


“Therapy can be more than "getting by"—it can be about opening space for freedom, meaning, and the life you truly want to live.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Men's issues
Humorous, Inquisitive, Open-minded
Accepts 9 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Leslie De Vera

Leslie De Vera

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“My approach is collaborative, personalized, and evidence-based. I believe effective mental health care is not one-size-fits-all...”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Holistic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Dr. Bantale Ayisire

Dr. Bantale Ayisire

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“My goal is to help you feel seen, heard, and empowered within the family. Let's walk this journey together, one step at a time.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Francis Robinson

Francis Robinson

Therapist

Virtual • San Francisco, CA


“Joseph takes an integrative, non-judgmental, client-centered, trauma-informed, culturally humble approach using evidence-based practices to help individuals heal.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Affirming, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers
Nicole Santos

Nicole Santos

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“I have over 15+ years experience as a nurse working in various departments, working hands on with patients, as well as leadership and management roles.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Henry Onyeaka

Henry Onyeaka

Psychiatrist

Virtual • California


“My style is calm, culturally sensitive, and direct. I strive to create a space where clients feel respected, understood, and empowered in their care.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Humorous, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Ryan Rickert

Ryan Rickert

Therapist

Virtual • California


“For over 20 years, I have supported people through depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress, dream analysis, sex therapy, and the deeper questions of meaning, purpose, and identity that can arise when life feels uncertain.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, End of life care
Empowering, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Corion Ogunleye

Corion Ogunleye

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I bring over eight years of diverse experience working in mental health with children, adults, and couples.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Sora Choi

Sora Choi

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I prioritize creating a warm and safe environment for my clients to feel comfortable sharing their unique stories, feel heard, and learn tools to alleviate symptoms and navigate difficulties.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Juanita Sanchez-Grob

Juanita Sanchez-Grob

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Clients can expect a safe, supportive, and confidential environment, where I will listen to understand without judgement.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Creative, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Jessie Licon

Jessie Licon

Therapist

Virtual • California


Hi! I'm a Latino therapist (he/him) born and raised in East Los Angeles. I earned my bachelor's degree in psychology from UCLA and my Master of Social Work from California State University, Long Beach. With nearly 9 years of experience in child welfare, probation, and community mental health, I use a holistic, trauma-informed approach to support individuals experiencing anxiety, depression, and the effects of trauma. My goal is to create a space where you feel comfortable, heard, and supported.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Empowering, Humorous, Inquisitive
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Heather Paxton

Heather Paxton

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I approach each client with unconditional positive regard and maintain empathetic listening and compassionate services.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Chinwe Chukwumerije

Chinwe Chukwumerije

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • San Jose, CA


“My approach is collaborative, holistic, and patient-centered. I believe that mental health care works best when we function as partners.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Holistic, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Shari Gilbert

Shari Gilbert

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I offer compassionate, supportive care where you'll feel heard, valued, and encouraged in your journey of growth and healing.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression, End of life care
Affirming, Direct, Holistic
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Janet Carrasco

Janet Carrasco

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My goal is to help you process experiences from your past, manage present challenges, recognize your strengths, and move toward a healthier and more fulfilling future.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Dr. Jai Thao

Dr. Jai Thao

Psychologist

Virtual • California


“I identify as an Asian American first-generation individual who migrated to the United States as a child, and this lived experience informs my culturally responsive and flexible approach.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Holistic, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Ursula Antonik-Buxton

Ursula Antonik-Buxton

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I will ask a lot of questions to truly understand the problem at hand and look for small steps that lead to the goals that you want to achieve.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Panic disorders, PTSD, Trauma
Inquisitive, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Chukwuemeka Obilor

Chukwuemeka Obilor

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“My approach is founded on holistic and patient-centered concepts, resulting in a collaborative alliance that values trust and open communication.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Marissa Jian

Marissa Jian

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Provide a safe and collaborative space to guide you in exploring and processing life's challenges to work through and process them.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Identity issues
Empowering, Inquisitive, Solution-oriented
Accepts 9 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Bentley Oliver

Bentley Oliver

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I consider myself a very direct therapist, I will not ask "how does that make you feel" for years as then I would need therapy!”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Direct, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Erin Costello

Erin Costello

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I strive to create a space where clients can show up as their whole selves without feeling the need to mask, minimize, or explain away important parts of who they are.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Marisol Lopez

Marisol Lopez

Therapist

Virtual • California


Taking the first step toward therapy can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re already carrying a heavy load. One thing for sure, you don’t have to navigate it alone.

In my practice, I work extensively with college students, athletes, young adults and adults across various stages of life. I specialize in helping clients navigate anxiety, depression, life transitions, performance pressure, injury recovery, burnout, and complex questions around identity and self-worth.

As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, my core mission is to support you through life's most challenging moments so you can step fully into the best version of yourself. Therapy isn't just about managing symptoms, it’s about discovering your strengths, building resilience, and creating a life that feels authentic and aligned with who you are.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, End of life care
Empowering, Holistic, Open-minded
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book

About our therapists located within 20 miles of San Mateo, CA who help people navigate grief and loss

Number of therapists within 20 miles of San Mateo, CA
There are over 37 therapists in San Mateo, CA accepting new patients.
37+
Average years in practice
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13 years
Top specialties offered
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  • 100%Grief or loss
  • 95%Stress management
  • 95%Anxiety
  • 95%Relationship issues
  • 95%Depression
Insurances accepted
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  • 95%Aetna
  • 62%Anthem Blue Cross California
  • 49%Providence Health Plan
  • 46%Carelon Behavioral Health
  • 43%Curative
Languages spoken
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  • 100%English
  • 11%Spanish
  • 8%Hebrew
  • 5%French
  • 3%Farsi
How they see their clients
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  • 89%In-person or online
  • 11%In-person only
Provider gender
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  • 59%Woman
  • 32%Man
  • 8%Non-binary
License types
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  • 46%Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist
  • 22%Clinical Psychologist
  • 16%Licensed Clinical Social Worker
  • 8%Nurse Practitioner
  • 5%Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor
Treatment approaches
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  • 100%Individual therapy
  • 27%Family therapy
  • 24%Child or adolescent therapy
  • 22%Couples therapy

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