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Grief counselors and therapists in San Mateo, CA

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Top grief and loss counseling therapists in San Mateo, CA

San Mateo residents facing bereavement can find compassionate grief therapy with Headway's 5,610 licensed providers. We offer evidence-based support including Complicated Grief Treatment, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and specialized counseling for loss of spouse, parent, child, or sibling. Virtual and in-person sessions are available with flexible scheduling to support your healing journey.

Candice Jeffers

Candice Jeffers

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • San Jose, CA


“My pediatric nursing background adds another layer—I understand how early experiences shape us and how differently mental health shows up across ages.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Holistic, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Alexandra Donnelly

Alexandra Donnelly

Therapist

Virtual • California


I have been a licensed psychotherapist practicing for 38 years, mostly focusing on treating depression, anxiety disorders and stress management. I work a great deal with couples as well.

Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Empowering, Inquisitive, Participatory
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Saby Kirpal

Saby Kirpal

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • San Diego, CA


“From our first session, you’ll find a warm, welcoming space where your challenges are met with compassion and your perspective truly matters.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Holistic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Dr. Cara Niemeier

Dr. Cara Niemeier

Psychiatrist

Virtual • California


“She uses an evidence-based, holistic approach, with the goal of using the lowest effective doses of sustainable medications when needed.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Family issues
Creative, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 13 insurance carriers
Samantha Sanchez-Franco

Samantha Sanchez-Franco

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I'm here to help you actually make the changes you've been wanting to make and have struggled to do so.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Affirming, Direct, Holistic
Accepts 10 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Sharon Atwood

Sharon Atwood

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • San Mateo, CA


“Your preferences and comfort inform every decision, and you’ll never leave with a plan you don’t understand or agree with.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Holistic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Clint Nacar

Clint Nacar

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“I strive to provide a supportive, respectful space where you feel heard, understood, and actively involved in your care.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Christine Gonzalez

Christine Gonzalez

Therapist

Virtual • Huntington Beach, CA


Your goals are most important to me, but I do recommend goals when needed. I accept you just as you are. I will work together with you to achieve an improved quality of life. I have over 30 years experience working in mental health counseling, and 10 1/2 years as a licensed provider. In that time, I have learned to use a variety of modalities. I tailor the type of therapy to my client and to his/her needs, so I might introduce more than one type during our work together. The issues I work with most include depression, anxiety, and trauma, I am also certified in addiction recovery, and neurodivergent issues.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Eating disorders
Empowering, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Jasmine Maniti

Jasmine Maniti

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • Irvine, CA


“I’m Jasmine Maniti, a board-certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner committed to offering thorough, caring mental health treatment.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Holistic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Misty Steffen

Misty Steffen

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • Beverly Hills, CA


“At the core of my practice is authentic partnership, showing up for every client with genuine warmth, deep respect, and real interest in who they are.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Affirming, Direct, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Dr. James Cardellino

Dr. James Cardellino

Psychologist

Virtual • California


Welcome to my practice. I have a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and I am a licensed psychologist in the state of California. I have many years of experience working with a variety of clients including: children, veterans, hospital inpatients and outpatients, mental health clinics, and individuals in private practice. My orientation is cognitive-behavior therapy (CBT) and I received my year-long training and became a consultant at the Atlanta Center for Cognitive Behavior Therapy. I also believe that trust is a central part of therapy and it is my responsibility to earn your trust. It is incredibly important that I have an accurate understanding of you, your situation and any problems you may be facing currently. I will rely on your guidance to ensure my understanding of you is accurate.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Diabetes, Family issues
Affirming, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Christyn Delgadillo

Christyn Delgadillo

Therapist

Virtual • California


“During our first session, we will complete an assessment which involves a lot of personal questions.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Humorous, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Saby Kirpal

Saby Kirpal

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • Fresno, CA


“With me, you'll have space to speak openly and honestly, without worrying about being judged or dismissed.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Holistic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Sinat Aleje

Sinat Aleje

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


I'm Sinat Aleje, a board-certified Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner with over ten years of experience in the mental health field. I’ve had the privilege of working with individuals across a variety of clinical settings, which has deepened my understanding of the emotional, psychological, and social challenges people face. I specialize in treating adults and adolescents with anxiety, depression, ADHD, PTSD, OCD, bipolar disorder, and schizoaffective disorder.

Clients often tell me they feel truly seen and heard during our sessions. I strive to create a safe and supportive space where healing can begin, and where clients are empowered to take an active role in their care. I hold a Doctor of Nursing Practice (DNP) and am committed to providing high-quality, evidence-based care that evolves with your journey.

If you're looking for a thoughtful, collaborative partner in your mental health care, I’d be honored to work with you.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Holistic, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Bret Klausen

Bret Klausen

Therapist

Virtual • Carlsbad, CA


“Warm but also pragmatic. I believe the therapeutic relationship is important to therapy but that there should also be a process of exploration, deepening-insight, and changing negative patterns.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dustina Cordero

Dustina Cordero

Therapist

Virtual • Roseville, CA


“My background spans forensic psychology, severe mental illness, and addiction treatment, giving me a deep understanding of the complex emotional and behavioral patterns people struggle with.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Remy Preston

Remy Preston

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Therapy with me is collaborative, open-minded, and affirming. I meet you where you are, honor your pace, and support you in reaching goals that feel meaningful and realistic for your life.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Affirming, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Evelyn Ciampa

Evelyn Ciampa

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • Pasadena, CA


“What sets my practice apart is collaborative care. I work closely with patients and families to create individualized, achievable treatment goals.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Holistic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
Julia Hamilton

Julia Hamilton

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My practice centers radical tolerance, creating an affirming, compassionate, and culturally responsive safe space.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Family issues, Identity issues
Affirming, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Gurleen Hans

Gurleen Hans

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • Beverly Hills, CA


“Outstanding psychiatric care brings together clinical expertise and genuine compassion, and I aim to offer both at every visit.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Young Tae Lee

Young Tae Lee

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • Gold River, CA


“I don’t believe in one-size-fits-all treatment; your story matters, and your plan should reflect it.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Holistic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
April Madden

April Madden

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Paso Robles, CA


I’m April Madden, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the owner of Twisted Oaks Family Therapy.

If you are interested in services, please reach out to clerical at (805)721-6112 or visit our website at twisitedoakstherapy.com


As the owner of Twisted Oaks Family Therapy, I’ve also built a team of clinicians with diverse specialties so that clients can be matched with a therapist who best fits their individual needs. Our goal is to provide a welcoming, nonjudgmental environment where clients can feel comfortable doing difficult work while knowing they do not have to navigate it alone.


I hold a master’s degree in clinical psychology and have more than 20 years of experience in the helping profession, working with individuals and families facing a wide range of emotional, behavioral, relational, and life challenges.


My approach to therapy is compassionate, trauma-informed, and direct. I believe therapy should be a space where you feel heard and supported, but also a place where meaningful growth happens. I work collaboratively with my clients to identify patterns, build healthier coping skills, strengthen relationships, and create lasting change.

I have experience working with adolescents, adults, couples, and families, with particular focus on trauma and PTSD, anxiety, depression, relationship and family concerns, life transitions, addiction and recovery, communication difficulties, self-esteem, and rebuilding trust and connection. I am also a Certified Substance Use Disorder Counselor IV (SUDCC-IV), which provides me with specialized experience in substance use, addiction, and recovery.


Whether you are seeking support for yourself, your relationship, or your family, our goal is to meet you where you are and help you move toward greater understanding, healing, and meaningful change.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Direct, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Christiane Soehnlein

Christiane Soehnlein

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Los Angeles, CA


“I believe therapy is not about "fixing" you, but about understanding yourself more deeply, changing patterns that no longer serve you...”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression
Affirming, Direct, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Shawn McClellan

Shawn McClellan

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe therapy should be a supportive, nonjudgmental space where you feel heard, respected, and comfortable being yourself.”
Grief or loss, Depression, Family issues, Relationship issues
Energetic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Isaac Ozobiani

Isaac Ozobiani

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I collaborate with clients on how to get from where they are in their lives currently to where they want to be.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Open-minded, Participatory, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Elaine Quattro

Elaine Quattro

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Life transitions can be beautifully transformative, but they can also feel incredibly heavy, confusing, and isolating.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship issues, Stress management
Affirming, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Tomas Torres

Tomas Torres

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“I take a holistic approach to care, addressing the whole person—mind, body, and spirit—to support long-term mental wellness.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Holistic, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Alison Vidaurre

Alison Vidaurre

Therapist

Virtual • California


Hi! I'm Alison and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Starting therapy can be nerve racking and even scary to some. I work with children and adults navigating through life changes, anxiety, depression and burnout. I've been a therapist for 10 years and in the last year I shifted my focus to working with parents struggling with burnout and anxiety. I find that these are the most common stressors affecting people in their day to day tasks and relationships. Regardless of what brings you here, I'd like for us to connect and help you reach your goals.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, End of life care
Direct, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Dr. Samara Aldahwi

Dr. Samara Aldahwi

Therapist

Virtual • Beverly Hills, CA


“I fundamentally believe that therapy should equal change. Because of this, my approach is direct, highly involved, and guided by a strict no sugarcoating policy.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Eating disorders
Challenging, Direct, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Tanya Allen

Tanya Allen

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe everyone deserves a space where they feel heard, understood, and supported through life's challenges.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, PTSD
Inquisitive, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Cassandra Valentino

Cassandra Valentino

Therapist

Virtual • Panorama City, CA


“Using a client-centered approach, I meet clients where they are at and encourage them to break down barriers that are preventing them from living their best lives as their authentic selves.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Creative, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Dominique Salido

Dominique Salido

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I incorporate various therapy approaches and other evidence-based practices such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT), Psychodynamic Therapy, and Motivational Interviewing (MI)...”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Holistic, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Gina Carrillo-Jackman

Gina Carrillo-Jackman

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I offer a warm, non-judgmental, and safe space for clients to connect and feel free to share whatever is on their minds.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
Yvette Buccino

Yvette Buccino

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Learning effective ways to increase the direction, transparency, and vulnerability in your life will improve the relationship you have with yourself and others.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Panic disorders, Stress management
Affirming, Holistic, Humorous
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Kathryn Eden

Kathryn Eden

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My work is both supportive and practical, focused on helping you gain clarity, develop effective coping strategies, and make meaningful changes in your life.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Panic disorders
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Tari Sawaya

Tari Sawaya

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My therapeutic style is warm, collaborative, culturally responsive, and client-centered. I believe healing occurs when people feel genuinely safe, understood, and empowered to explore their experiences without judgment.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Humorous, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Alexandra Matustik

Alexandra Matustik

Therapist

Virtual • Los Angeles, CA


“My hope is for you to have a deeper, more compassionate relationship to yourself, the important people in your life, and the world around you.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Identity issues
Creative, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 2 insurance carriers
An-Ping (Andie) Hsia

An-Ping (Andie) Hsia

Therapist

Virtual • Pasadena, CA


“I care deeply about helping people restore connection—whether with themselves, with loved ones, or with the world around them.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Affirming, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Melinda Fay

Melinda Fay

Therapist

Virtual • California


Melinda Fay is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in Art Therapy. I received my MA in Psychology from Phillips Graduate Institute in 2002 and I have been licensed since 2008.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Direct, Inquisitive, Solution-oriented
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book

If you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure how to move forward, you don't have to figure it out alone.

I help adults work through anxiety, ADHD, depression, and the stress of big life transitions so you can move forward with more clarity, confidence, and a renewed sense of direction.

I'm a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor with over a decade of clinical experience, and I bring a calm, grounded presence to the work.

My background spans trauma-informed care, support for college students building self-advocacy and success strategies (especially those with learning differences), and extensive work with the military community — including wounded warriors and their families.

Whether you're navigating a career or life change, managing attention or focus challenges, working through anxiety or depression, or facing relationship stress, I offer a safe, collaborative space where real growth is possible.

Clients often describe me as warm, real, non-judgmental, and direct in a supportive way. I'm LGBTQIA+ affirming and welcome people from all backgrounds with a spirit of inclusion and care.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, OCD
Direct, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book

About our therapists located within 20 miles of San Mateo, CA who help people navigate grief and loss

Number of therapists within 20 miles of San Mateo, CA
There are over 26 therapists in San Mateo, CA accepting new patients.
26+
Average years in practice
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13 years
Top specialties offered
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  • 100%Grief or loss
  • 92%Stress management
  • 92%Anxiety
  • 92%Relationship issues
  • 92%Depression
Insurances accepted
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  • 100%Aetna
  • 58%Anthem Blue Cross California
  • 46%Providence Health Plan
  • 46%Curative
  • 42%Carelon Behavioral Health
Languages spoken
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  • 100%English
  • 12%Spanish
  • 8%French
  • 8%Hebrew
  • 8%Russian
How they see their clients
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  • 85%In-person or online
  • 15%In-person only
Provider gender
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  • 58%Woman
  • 35%Man
  • 8%Non-binary
License types
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  • 50%Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist
  • 19%Licensed Clinical Social Worker
  • 12%Clinical Psychologist
  • 12%Nurse Practitioner
  • 4%Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor
Treatment approaches
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  • 100%Individual therapy
  • 23%Child or adolescent therapy
  • 23%Couples therapy
  • 19%Family therapy

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