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Grief counselors and therapists in San Mateo, CA

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Top grief and loss counseling therapists in San Mateo, CA

San Mateo residents facing bereavement can find compassionate grief therapy with Headway's 5,610 licensed providers. We offer evidence-based support including Complicated Grief Treatment, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and specialized counseling for loss of spouse, parent, child, or sibling. Virtual and in-person sessions are available with flexible scheduling to support your healing journey.

Jzeela Gheisar

Jzeela Gheisar

Therapist

Virtual • California


“You deserve happiness, a fulfilling life, and I'd be honored to walk alongside your journey to discovery and change.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Creative, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Sharon Walsh

Sharon Walsh

Therapist

Virtual • California


I believe the best work happens when you feel comfortable, understood, and supported. My goal is to create a space where you can be yourself—no pressure, no judgment, and no need to have everything figured out before you start. We’ll work together to explore what’s bringing you in, what matters most to you, and what you’d like to change or better understand.

I don’t believe in one-size-fits-all approaches. Each person is different, so our work will be tailored to your needs, your goals, and your pace. Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, going through a transition, or simply wanting to better understand yourself, I’m here to help you move forward in a way that feels manageable and authentic.

What I Bring to Our Work

  • A welcoming, nonjudgmental space
  • Thoughtful listening and honest, compassionate feedback
  • A balance of insight and practical tools you can use outside of sessions
  • Support that’s personalized to you, not a preset formula

If you’re looking for someone who is easy to talk to, genuinely supportive, and invested in your growth, I’d be glad to work with you and see if we’re a good fit.

Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, End of life care
Direct, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
DeRoy Obilor

DeRoy Obilor

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“My approach is founded on holistic and patient-centered concepts, resulting in a collaborative alliance that values trust and open communication.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Susan Gonzalez

Susan Gonzalez

Therapist

Virtual • Goleta, CA


“As a bilingual/bicultural LMFT, I am committed to helping clients navigate through life's trials & experiences.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Creative, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. James Lee

Dr. James Lee

Psychologist

Virtual • California


“Clients come away from sessions feeling more supported, whole, and in contact with their own inner wisdom.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 2 insurance carriers
Kathleen Freaney

Kathleen Freaney

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe that personalized therapy is the future of healthcare. By treating each family... as unique and tailoring treatment plans to meet their specific needs, I strive to strengthen people's ability to make positive, lasting changes in their...”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Family issues
Direct, Open-minded, Participatory
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Kathryn Eden

Kathryn Eden

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My work is both supportive and practical, focused on helping you gain clarity, develop effective coping strategies, and make meaningful changes in your life.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Panic disorders
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Tari Sawaya

Tari Sawaya

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My therapeutic style is warm, collaborative, culturally responsive, and client-centered. I believe healing occurs when people feel genuinely safe, understood, and empowered to explore their experiences without judgment.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Humorous, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Alexandra Matustik

Alexandra Matustik

Therapist

Virtual • Los Angeles, CA


“My hope is for you to have a deeper, more compassionate relationship to yourself, the important people in your life, and the world around you.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Identity issues
Creative, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 2 insurance carriers
Shawn McClellan

Shawn McClellan

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe therapy should be a supportive, nonjudgmental space where you feel heard, respected, and comfortable being yourself.”
Grief or loss, Depression, Family issues, Relationship issues
Energetic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Isaac Ozobiani

Isaac Ozobiani

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I collaborate with clients on how to get from where they are in their lives currently to where they want to be.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Open-minded, Participatory, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Elaine Quattro

Elaine Quattro

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Life transitions can be beautifully transformative, but they can also feel incredibly heavy, confusing, and isolating.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship issues, Stress management
Affirming, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Tomas Torres

Tomas Torres

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“I take a holistic approach to care, addressing the whole person—mind, body, and spirit—to support long-term mental wellness.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Holistic, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Kaleas Johnson

Kaleas Johnson

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe in creating a safe space where you will be seen, heard, supported, challenged and assisted in gaining tools to address difficulties and struggles.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Elizabeth Bashnick

Elizabeth Bashnick

Psychologist

Virtual • California


“With more than ten years of experience in hospital-based clinical care, I've learned just how resilient people truly are—even in their most challenging moments.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, PTSD
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Arpi Isayan

Arpi Isayan

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I work with adults who look "high-functioning" on the outside but feel overwhelmed on the inside—often dealing with anxiety, trauma, perfectionism, intrusive thoughts/OCD, ADHD, and self-esteem or body image concerns.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Direct, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Funmi Igbinigie

Funmi Igbinigie

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“My goal is to create a warm, compassionate, and judgment-free space where you feel heard, respected, and supported.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 9 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Shanna Holladay

Shanna Holladay

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I'm a deeply affirming therapist for LGBTQIAS2+ clients and have extensive experience supporting transgender folks navigating transition, identity, and the mental health weight that often comes with it.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Infertility
Humorous, Open-minded, Participatory
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Noelle Lee

Dr. Noelle Lee

Psychologist

Virtual & in-person • Newport Beach, CA


As a highly compassionate and empathic therapist, I am able to provide the space you need to process on a deeper level to cultivate self-awareness and insight so that you can fully understand yourself, experiences, their implications in your life and world, with development of genuine self-love and self-care. I am passionate about helping others find happiness in themselves, their relationships, their everyday lives, and in their world, and love the work I do.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Open-minded, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Piran Mehta

Piran Mehta

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“During an intake session with me you can expect having a non judgmental conversation and piece together a complete history of yourself...”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Affirming, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 13 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Shawn Redfield

Shawn Redfield

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I primarily use Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help you build new skills and create space for what matters most.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Eating disorders
Empowering, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jody Brewer

Jody Brewer

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe that the client should direct the treatment, and I take on supporting role where we can explore different avenues to resolve an issue.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dustina Cordero

Dustina Cordero

Therapist

Virtual • Roseville, CA


“My background spans forensic psychology, severe mental illness, and addiction treatment, giving me a deep understanding of the complex emotional and behavioral patterns people struggle with.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Dr. Samara Aldahwi

Dr. Samara Aldahwi

Therapist

Virtual • Beverly Hills, CA


“I fundamentally believe that therapy should equal change. Because of this, my approach is direct, highly involved, and guided by a strict no sugarcoating policy.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Eating disorders
Challenging, Direct, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Tanya Allen

Tanya Allen

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe everyone deserves a space where they feel heard, understood, and supported through life's challenges.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, PTSD
Inquisitive, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Cassandra Valentino

Cassandra Valentino

Therapist

Virtual • Panorama City, CA


“Using a client-centered approach, I meet clients where they are at and encourage them to break down barriers that are preventing them from living their best lives as their authentic selves.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Creative, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Dominique Salido

Dominique Salido

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I incorporate various therapy approaches and other evidence-based practices such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT), Psychodynamic Therapy, and Motivational Interviewing (MI)...”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Holistic, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Nicole Ashley

Nicole Ashley

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My passion lies in supporting clients through complex life experiences, including grief, relationship issues, and the emotional toll of chronic conditions or physical health issues.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
An-Ping (Andie) Hsia

An-Ping (Andie) Hsia

Therapist

Virtual • Pasadena, CA


“I care deeply about helping people restore connection—whether with themselves, with loved ones, or with the world around them.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Affirming, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Melinda Fay

Melinda Fay

Therapist

Virtual • California


Melinda Fay is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in Art Therapy. I received my MA in Psychology from Phillips Graduate Institute in 2002 and I have been licensed since 2008.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Direct, Inquisitive, Solution-oriented
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book

If you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure how to move forward, you don't have to figure it out alone.

I help adults work through anxiety, ADHD, depression, and the stress of big life transitions so you can move forward with more clarity, confidence, and a renewed sense of direction.

I'm a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor with over a decade of clinical experience, and I bring a calm, grounded presence to the work.

My background spans trauma-informed care, support for college students building self-advocacy and success strategies (especially those with learning differences), and extensive work with the military community — including wounded warriors and their families.

Whether you're navigating a career or life change, managing attention or focus challenges, working through anxiety or depression, or facing relationship stress, I offer a safe, collaborative space where real growth is possible.

Clients often describe me as warm, real, non-judgmental, and direct in a supportive way. I'm LGBTQIA+ affirming and welcome people from all backgrounds with a spirit of inclusion and care.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, OCD
Direct, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Zlatoslava Karga

Zlatoslava Karga

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“I believe that the best treatment begins with listening. Every person has a unique story, and I strive to create a welcoming, judgment-free space where you feel heard, respected, and supported.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Creative, Direct, Holistic
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Nicholas Rodriguez

Nicholas Rodriguez

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My goal is to foster a working relationship where you feel supported, understood, and empowered to make meaningful changes.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Inquisitive, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Rachel Miller

Rachel Miller

Therapist

Virtual • California


Hi! My name is Rachel. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and I’m here to start with where you are at. We will work collaboratively to help you heal from past hurts and the negative scripts that are running your show. I offer a non judgmental space for you to come, slow down, breathe and just be. My approach includes EMDR, Somatic Therapy and a values- based approach that helps you handle tough thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Diabetes, End of life care
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 11 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Stacy Hajarian

Stacy Hajarian

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Santa Monica, CA


“My approach draws from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and psychodynamic and attachment-based therapy. Because lasting change usually requires both structure and depth.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, End of life care
Empowering, Inquisitive, Participatory
Accepts 1 insurance carrier

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Michelle Gutierrez

Michelle Gutierrez

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Therapy, in my view, is a process of helping you come back into relationship with yourself—your physical sensations, emotional truth, and inner sense of direction.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Panic disorders
Challenging, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Samantha Scheussler

Samantha Scheussler

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I really believe that you know yourself best, and that the best therapy happens when we work together as a team.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions, Depression
Holistic, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Ramona Taylor

Ramona Taylor

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I approach therapy with the goal that each session is meaningful and that clients are able to experience noticeable changes in a relatively short time.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Challenging, Direct, Empowering
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Robert Hirsch

Robert Hirsch

Psychologist

Virtual • Palm Springs, CA


“I view my work as a collaborative process where I join my client in defining and moving toward his or her goals and individual journey.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, LGBTQIA+
Affirming, Challenging, Empowering
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
Catherine Stansell

Catherine Stansell

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I view therapy as a collaboration between client and therapist. As a team, we explore and work towards your therapy goals.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book

About our therapists located within 20 miles of San Mateo, CA who help people navigate grief and loss

Number of therapists within 20 miles of San Mateo, CA
There are over 26 therapists in San Mateo, CA accepting new patients.
26+
Average years in practice
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13 years
Top specialties offered
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  • 100%Grief or loss
  • 92%Stress management
  • 92%Anxiety
  • 92%Relationship issues
  • 92%Depression
Insurances accepted
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  • 100%Aetna
  • 58%Anthem Blue Cross California
  • 46%Providence Health Plan
  • 46%Curative
  • 42%Carelon Behavioral Health
Languages spoken
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  • 100%English
  • 12%Spanish
  • 8%French
  • 8%Hebrew
  • 8%Russian
How they see their clients
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  • 85%In-person or online
  • 15%In-person only
Provider gender
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  • 58%Woman
  • 35%Man
  • 8%Non-binary
License types
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  • 50%Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist
  • 19%Licensed Clinical Social Worker
  • 12%Clinical Psychologist
  • 12%Nurse Practitioner
  • 4%Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor
Treatment approaches
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  • 100%Individual therapy
  • 23%Child or adolescent therapy
  • 23%Couples therapy
  • 19%Family therapy

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