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Top grief and loss counseling therapists in Santa Barbara, CA

Coping with bereavement, anticipatory grief, or the loss of a loved one requires compassionate, specialized care. Headway's Santa Barbara-based network includes therapists experienced in grief counseling, meaning-making, and trauma-informed support to help you process your loss.

We Sun Park

We Sun Park

Therapist

Virtual • California


Hi, I'm a licensed therapist who is passionate about helping people navigate life's challenges with confidence and self-compassion. I work with adults experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, relationship concerns, and life transitions. My approach is warm, supportive, and collaborative, and I tailor therapy to each person's unique needs. My goal is to create a safe space where you feel heard, understood, and empowered to grow.

Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Melissa Henson

Melissa Henson

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach to therapy is client-centered and a collaborative process. I utilize a combination of trauma-informed, person-centered, and attachment-based approaches.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Maternal mental health
Empowering, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Rosa Barraza

Rosa Barraza

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I became a therapist because I've seen how much changes when someone finally has a space that's just for them — no performing, no managing other people's feelings, just honest conversation about what's actually going on.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Holistic, Inquisitive, Solution-oriented
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Christina Edwards

Christina Edwards

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Through my experience working at a DBT clinic, I have facilitated skills training groups and worked with many clients struggling with emotion regulation.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Direct, Holistic, Open-minded
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
James Castillo

James Castillo

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I approach therapy with an open mind. This is the patient's journey, and I am here to guide them through processing trauma, experiences, thoughts, and feelings by providing a safe and secure environment.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Challenging, Direct, Empowering, Energetic, Humorous, Open-minded, Participatory, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Susan Hayatghaib

Susan Hayatghaib

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe each of us already carries the capacity to heal, and that the right support helps us find it.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Chad Schwartzman

Chad Schwartzman

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach to therapy is creative, lively and experiential. The awareness that will come with this journey of discovery, coupled with a genuine therapeutic relationship between us, will lead to long-term growth and healing.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Creative, Empowering, Humorous
Accepts 1 insurance carrier
Ehlan Siddiqi

Ehlan Siddiqi

Therapist

Virtual • Oakland, CA


“As an immigrant, I bring lived experience of navigating cultural transitions and identity exploration, which informs my culturally sensitive approach to therapy.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Holistic, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Gurleen Hans

Gurleen Hans

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • Beverly Hills, CA


“I believe effective mental health care requires clinical expertise, compassion, cultural sensitivity, and a true willingness to listen to each person's unique story.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Christopher Mckillop

Christopher Mckillop

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I create a compassionate, non-judgmental space where individuals can explore their challenges and develop meaningful coping skills.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Direct, Humorous, Open-minded
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Nyka Saint Jean

Nyka Saint Jean

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“My approach is collaborative and grounded in partnership because I believe the best care happens when you feel empowered, informed, and genuinely part of every decision.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Alexándria Olosunde

Alexándria Olosunde

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe you deserve a therapist who is fully human, fully present, and genuinely invested in your growth.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Challenging, Humorous, Participatory
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Patricia Jones

Patricia Jones

Therapist

Virtual • California


Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or weighed down by anxiety, depression, self-doubt, or past experiences? Moving forward can feel difficult when emotional pain, relationship struggles, or life stress leave you feeling trapped or uncertain.You do not have to face these challenges alone. I provide a compassionate, supportive, and nonjudgmental space where we can work together to help you heal, grow, and regain confidence. I believe your worth is not defined by your past or your struggles. Together, we will explore practical tools and strategies to help you create meaningful change and move toward a healthier, more fulfilling life.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Direct, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Zaryn Avaren

Zaryn Avaren

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe meaningful change begins when we slow down and meet ourselves with curiosity instead of judgment.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression, Identity issues
Holistic, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Abbie Porter

Abbie Porter

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I take an individualistic, collaborative approach to treatment. I will work with each individual to identify their goals for coming to treatment and base my strategy off of that.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Austin Boelman

Austin Boelman

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I am someone who believes in a holistic approach to therapy attending to the emotional and physical wellbeing of every client.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Identity issues, Men's issues
Affirming, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Ann Cleary

Ann Cleary

Therapist

Virtual • California


What patterns keep repeating in your life, even when part of you wants something different? I work with infants, children, adolescents, adults, and seniors, with a particular focus on experiences that are hard to put into words: the quiet accumulation of feeling disconnected or unseen, questions around adoption and family origins, infertility, the emotional weight of becoming a parent, and the grief that comes when life takes an unexpected shape. A lot of what brings people to therapy is not a single event. It builds. I trained at UCLA and bring both clinical depth and genuine warmth to this work.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression, Family issues
Open-minded, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Josiah Loomis

Josiah Loomis

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • San Luis Obispo, CA


“I believe that the ability to create a life of meaning comes from within and that everyone is capable of reaching their most personal and intimate goals.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Men's issues
Inquisitive, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 1 insurance carrier
Mari Ann Fortuna

Mari Ann Fortuna

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I am an active participant in session and seek to create a safe space to develop a meaningful relational base.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Identity issues
Direct, Open-minded, Participatory
Accepts 1 insurance carrier
Qadar Abukamleh

Qadar Abukamleh

Therapist

Virtual • Victorville, CA


“I like to increase your self awareness, install hope and challenge/ support you to achieve your therapy goals.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Challenging, Direct, Empowering
Accepts 3 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Lindsay Cross

Lindsay Cross

Therapist

Virtual • California


With over 10 years of experience working with youth and families in the mental health field, I specialize in supporting teens and young adults as they navigate anxiety, depression, and life transitions. I also bring a unique understanding of the pressures and experiences of student-athletes. I recognize the mental and emotional demands that come with striving for success—both on and off the field. Whether you're navigating performance anxiety, identity beyond sport, injury recovery, or balancing academics and athletics, I’m here to support your full journey, not just your performance.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Identity issues
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Corrine Thomas

Corrine Thomas

Therapist

Virtual • California


I specialize in helping clients navigate depression, anxiety, anger, trauma, and the thought patterns that keep them feeling stuck. Since 2003, I’ve used CBT informed, trauma informed, and solution focused techniques to help clients understand cognitive distortions, reframe challenges, and build practical tools for lasting change. My approach is warm, nonjudgmental, and centered on your goals, strengths, and the skills you already have.

Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, LGBTQIA+
Challenging, Direct, Humorous
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Rachael Tarfman-Perez

Rachael Tarfman-Perez

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach to therapy is very eclectic. I enjoy incorporating various techniques from CBT, Gestalt, Solution-Focused, Client-Centered, and other modalities.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Empowering, Humorous, Open-minded
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Elias De Almeida

Elias De Almeida

Psychologist

Virtual • California


“Each person is a unique universe, and effective interventions must be tailored to address the specific issues at hand.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Identity issues, Maternal mental health
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Rebecca Heisler

Rebecca Heisler

Therapist

Virtual • Temecula, CA


“Life is relationship. Most people come to therapy because something in their relationships no longer feels the way they want it to.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Munira Montez

Munira Montez

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach blends deep empathy with actionable strategies. We won't just talk; we will identify your specific triggers and create a highly individualized treatment plan.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, End of life care
Holistic, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
James Roberts

James Roberts

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe a strong therapeutic relationship is built not only on clinical skill, but also on honesty, trust, personality fit, and feeling like your therapist matches your needs.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Men's issues
Inquisitive, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Danny Martin

Danny Martin

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe therapy works best when clients feel safe, understood, and supported, while also being encouraged to grow.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Robert Garcia

Robert Garcia

Therapist

Virtual • Redding, CA


You may have held doubts about talk therapy and perhaps are thinking therapy may not work at all for what you are dealing with. Psychotherapy like all science is continually changing. Both new and long held approaches to well-being are vast. I invite you to consider Brainspotting before you rule out therapy entirely. My role as a Brainspotting clinician is to offer you support, as you discover your innate capacity for positive self change. I specialize in trauma focused therapy, specializing in treating anxiety disorders. I focus on various forms of addiction, OCD, behavioral issues, depression, bi-polar and mood disorders.

I am a masters level trained Brainspotting clinician and a U.S. Army veteran. I believe in facilitating change in a supportive environment, following and observing your amazing capacity to heal from trauma in your therapeutic work. I work with veterans, first-responders, and other populations struggling with unresolved trauma and anxiety disorders.

Your unique circumstances are to be understood, honored respected and explored in a judgement free, supportive and caring environment. The issues that you bring into therapy remain entirely up to you. I will listen to your wants and needs; joining you on the journey towards your desired sense of well-being.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Direct, Empowering
Accepts 1 insurance carrier
Samantha Alvarez

Samantha Alvarez

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I work with children, adolescents, young adults, and parents, using a warm, supportive, and down-to-earth approach that helps clients feel safe, understood, and empowered.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Sherletta Carter

Sherletta Carter

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I especially enjoy empowering women who have felt unheard, unseen, or discouraged, helping them reclaim confidence, purpose, and the courage to move toward their dreams.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Direct, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Elizabeth Eastman

Elizabeth Eastman

Therapist

Virtual • La Mesa, CA


Through therapy, clients develop new skills, discover new insights, and strengthen their resilience for whatever life brings.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Direct, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Katherine Cooper

Katherine Cooper

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I have a career that spans 30 years in corporate America and went back to earn a second Masters Degree in Counseling in 2013.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, End of life care, Family issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Tamika Torres

Dr. Tamika Torres

Psychologist

Virtual • California


“I work with adults navigating high-functioning anxiety, burnout, maternal mental health concerns, trauma, grief, and life transitions.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, End of life care
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Victoria Macias

Victoria Macias

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I view therapy as a collaborative process, one that empowers you to understand yourself more fully, strengthen your relationships and move toward emotional balance and fulfillment.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, End of life care
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Alexandra Jackson

Alexandra Jackson

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I am committed to meeting each person where they are — without judgment — and building on their existing strengths.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Affirming, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Rachel Howard

Rachel Howard

Therapist

Virtual • California


Hello! I am Registered Yoga Teacher, Clinical Supervisor & Consultant, as well as a Certified Focusing-Oriented Expressive Arts Practitioner.

I have almost a decade of experience working with children, adults, couples, and families in a therapeutic capacity. I specialize in trauma and family work. I am an integrative psychotherapist – integrating art therapy, play therapy, sand tray, mindfulness, astrology, spirituality, and more into therapy.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Creative, Empowering, Holistic
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jeremy Argo

Jeremy Argo

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I bring genuine compassion to every session and a real commitment to helping you find a clearer path forward.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Direct, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Stephanie Horns

Stephanie Horns

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe that adversities that life presents us, are opportunities for growth and a chance for improvement in our daily life.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Relationship issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Thomas Moore

Thomas Moore

Therapist

Virtual • California


I’m Thomas Moore, LPCC, a licensed professional clinical counselor providing therapy for individuals navigating anxiety, trauma, emotional overwhelm, identity development, and complex relational patterns. Many of the people I work with feel stuck in repeating cycles such as overthinking, people pleasing, emotional shutdown, intense reactions, or difficulty maintaining stable relationships even when they logically understand what they should do. My goal is to help you translate insight into real change.

My approach is structured and compassionate. I integrate evidence based methods including cognitive restructuring, emotional regulation training, interpersonal effectiveness skills, and trauma informed therapy. Sessions focus on understanding why your brain reacts the way it does and building practical tools you can actually use outside the therapy room. This is not only about talking through problems but learning how to respond differently when they show up in real life.

I work well with clients who want more than passive support and are ready to build skills, increase self awareness, and interrupt patterns that no longer serve them.

What clients should know before starting

Therapy with me is collaborative and active and you will learn strategies rather than only venting. We will work on understanding both the emotional and neurological side of your reactions. Sessions focus on present day functioning while also addressing past experiences that still affect you. I may gently challenge patterns when it supports growth while maintaining a supportive and respectful space. Progress often comes from small repeated changes rather than sudden breakthroughs.

If you are looking for therapy that combines validation with practical change, we will likely work well together.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

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