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Grief counselors and therapists in Costa Mesa, CA

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Top grief and loss counseling therapists in Costa Mesa, CA

Coping with bereavement requires compassionate, specialized support. In Costa Mesa, Headway's network of 6,047 providers offers grief counseling and therapy tailored to your loss—whether grieving a loved one, processing anticipatory grief, or finding meaning after death. Sessions are flexible and often covered by insurance.

Shawna Uskokovic

Shawna Uskokovic

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach is always tailored to each person's unique needs, but I often draw from CBT, DBT, grief counseling, and narrative therapy...”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Stephanie Davidson

Stephanie Davidson

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I see the therapeutic experience as collaborative between the client and the therapist, that you feel heard, seen, understood as well as respected.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Challenging, Creative, Direct, Empowering, Energetic, Humorous, Inquisitive, Open-minded, Participatory, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Alex Melkumian

Alex Melkumian

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I use an empathic and empowering approach, blending insights from sports psychology, traditional therapy, and financial wellness practices.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
Hovhannes Avagyan

Hovhannes Avagyan

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“Hovhannes believes in a patient-centered care which ensures optimal treatment of symptoms with the combination of traditional therapies, medications, and holistic treatment.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Jessica Abreu

Jessica Abreu

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“I strive to create a safe, nonjudgmental environment where patients feel heard, respected, and supported.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Affirming, Humorous, Open-minded
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Karen Wheeler

Karen Wheeler

Therapist

Virtual • California


I am so happy to meet you and look forward to working with you. My approach as a Mental Health Clinician is warm, empathetic, compassionate and affirming. I have had over 30 years of experience in the field of Mental Health and substance use treatment. I have worked at Women's Recovery Association with women and children. Many years in School Based Counseling and individual counseling.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Eating disorders
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Christina Sanchez

Christina Sanchez

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I work from a Psychodynamic approach, where it's about unpacking the layers and gaining more self awareness...”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Holistic, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 1 insurance carrier
Kym Andrews-Cardoza

Kym Andrews-Cardoza

Therapist

Virtual • California


Finding a therapist can feel overwhelming, especially if you’re already carrying a lot. My goal is to offer a space where you can take a breath, feel understood, and not have to explain or justify what you’re going through. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who works with individuals and couples navigating stress, relationship challenges, emotional overwhelm, and just life in general. Many of the people I work with are caring, capable, and thoughtful—yet sometimes feel misunderstood and drained by all of their responsibilities, oftentimes putting their own needs last. I can help guide you as you sort things out and move towards finding more peace and joy in your life.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Ermelinda Garza

Ermelinda Garza

Therapist

Virtual • California


Hello,

I’m Ermelinda, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I have over 10+ years of experience in providing therapy to adults, children, and adolescents. Do you feel stuck, tired, and not being able to function in your daily life? Are you struggling to balance work, relationships, and life? Many times, we experience loss, grief, anxiety, stress, and depression. I look forward to helping you in your journey to healing. Life is hard and sometimes all you need is just a push.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Maternal mental health
Holistic, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Denise Alfaro

Denise Alfaro

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Walnut Creek, CA


“I focus on giving you concrete, real-world tools that lead to noticeable changes in your everyday life.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Magan Torres

Magan Torres

Therapist

Virtual • California


As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with lived experience as a mixed-race person, I bring authentic understanding of navigating multiple identities and cultural contexts to my practice. My approach to therapy is grounded in a simple yet powerful principle: I strive to be the therapist I would want for my own family.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Identity issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Martin Olivares

Martin Olivares

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Westlake Village, CA


“His approach is thoughtful, relational, and culturally responsive, based on the belief that lasting change becomes possible when people feel deeply understood and supported as they explore previously unrecognized aspects of themselves.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Inquisitive, Open-minded
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Stephan Blustajn

Stephan Blustajn

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach is warm, collaborative, and personalized to your needs. Drawing from Solution-Focused Brief Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Client-Centered Therapy, I help you build practical tools...”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Haley Parker

Haley Parker

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe therapy is a collaborative healing process. My hope is to empower the individuals I work with to seek clarity and guidance on different strategies to alleviate any existing distress.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Colleen O'Brien

Colleen O'Brien

Therapist

Virtual • California


I am a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. I have offices in Santa Monica, Malibu, Ojai, & Ventura. I practice traditional talk therapy as well as Attachment Focused EMDR both in person and remotely. I also practice Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) with an emphasis on treating depression, anxiety, PTSD, and trauma. My practice focuses on trauma, mood disorders, life transitions, addiction & recovery, and relationships. I trained as a KAP therapist at the Ketamine Training Center in San Rafael, California. I am trained by MAPS in MDMA Assisted Psychotherapy. I am certified in Psychedelic Therapy by Fluence.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression, Eating disorders
Empowering, Holistic, Inquisitive
Accepts 1 insurance carrier

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Marissa Robinson

Dr. Marissa Robinson

Psychologist

Virtual • California


I'm a psychologist helping clients to navigate transition and overcome destructive patterns. I have expertise in treating anxiety, ocd, adhd, trauma, depression, addiction, recovery, and relationship challenges. I've had a private practice for over 10 years and work with adult clients at all stages of life. I earned my doctorate in Clinical Psychology at California Institute of Integral Studies, with intensive training at the Portia Bell Hume Center, Kaiser, UCSF, VA and the Jung Institute.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Holistic, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 1 insurance carrier
Helen Crew

Helen Crew

Therapist

Virtual • California


Becoming a mother changes everything — your body, your identity, your relationships, your sense of self. But even before motherhood, life has a way of piling on. Maybe you’re a college student juggling everything at once, a working woman with too many open tabs and not enough hours, or a mom running on empty wondering when it became this hard. Whether you’re navigating postpartum anxiety, pregnancy loss, burnout, life transitions, or just that feeling that you’ve lost yourself somewhere along the way — you deserve more than just getting through the day. This space is for you!

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Jeffrey Bellissimo

Jeffrey Bellissimo

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe that you are the expert on your own life, and my role is to support you in gaining clarity and finding solutions that feel authentic and sustainable.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Empowering, Humorous, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Jamison Medcalf

Jamison Medcalf

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My therapeutic approach incorporates motivation for change, self-compassion, psychoeducation, and cognitive techniques to help individuals understand themselves and foster hope.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Inquisitive, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Lisa Lichtenstein

Lisa Lichtenstein

Therapist

Virtual • California


I create a warm environment to work collaboratively on achieving your objectives. I've been a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for over 20 years. I specialize in relationships, anxiety, depression, fears/phobias, couples work, creativity, career enhancement among other goals. I have an eclectic treatment modality including psychodynamic, self-psychology, cognitive-behavioral, hypnotherapy and NLP.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, End of life care, Family issues
Participatory, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 2 insurance carriers
Kirsten Boulton

Kirsten Boulton

Therapist

Virtual • Rancho Cucamonga, CA


I have been drawn to this work for as long as I can remember. I earned my Masters in Social Work at Loma Linda University and spent years inside child protective services and the custody system, where I saw how much pain families carry and how little space they are given to heal it. I became a licensed clinical social worker in 2012 and opened my own practice in 2021. Along the way I trained in EMDR, DBT, Internal Family Systems and somatic work, and I taught social work at the graduate level. That mix shapes how I sit with people today. I am not interested in managing symptoms and calling it progress. I want the people I

work with to feel genuinely different in their own bodies and in their own relationships.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Affirming, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jina Chavarro Cubides

Jina Chavarro Cubides

Therapist

Virtual • California


I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker based in California. I received my Masters from San Diego State University in Clinical Social Work, and have been practicing for over four years. I provide bilingual (Spanish/English) and bicultural psychotherapy services to individuals 18+ struggling with mental health challenges and trauma-related disorders regain self-control and power.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Tammy Boen-Padilla

Tammy Boen-Padilla

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I take a person-centered, collaborative approach to therapy, believing that a strong therapeutic relationship built on trust, empathy, and respect is the foundation for meaningful change.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, End of life care
Affirming, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Sarah Sharpe

Sarah Sharpe

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I guide deep feelers out of anxiety, self-doubt, and feeling unfulfilled, into radical self-trust, self-acceptance, and ease.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Eating disorders, Family issues
Holistic, Inquisitive, Open-minded
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Ana Melendez

Ana Melendez

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I take a collaborative and strengths-based approach, tailoring our work to your unique needs, goals, and experiences.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Lorraine Halder

Lorraine Halder

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“I believe treatment should focus on helping clients feel emotionally stable, understood, and empowered again.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Carissa Baker

Carissa Baker

Therapist

Virtual • California


When stress takes over, life can feel overwhelming and exhausting. You may find yourself wondering if your anxiety, relationship struggles, or emotions are connected to something deeper. Therapy offers a space to slow down and explore what’s beneath the surface. I’m Carissa, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in trauma-informed care. I work with individuals, couples, and families to strengthen relationships, heal attachment wounds, and shift trauma patterns. Your story matters.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Infertility
Direct, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Jeremy Strametz

Jeremy Strametz

Therapist

Virtual • Gilroy, CA


“My style is warm, direct, and solution-focused. I use humor to help clients feel at ease, meet them exactly where they are...”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Direct, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Theresa LeMaire

Theresa LeMaire

Therapist

Virtual • California


As a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist since 2004, I have come to understand that all of us need mental health support during different times of our lives. Looking back, the supports I have received through my life, both personally and from professionals, are integral in shaping the person I strive to be every day.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Airy Michelle-Mason

Airy Michelle-Mason

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I get to be a cheerleader, a guide, a co-pilot, a collaborator, and a witness to your growth and healing.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Identity issues
Affirming, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Tyhesha Ware

Tyhesha Ware

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“My background includes caring for veterans, individuals with complex medical and psychiatric needs, and people from diverse cultural and socioeconomic backgrounds.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Humorous, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Michelle Cambi

Michelle Cambi

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I enjoy supporting folks working through issues such as anxiety, depression, transitional phases of life, anger, grief, chronic illness, and military families/spouses.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions, Depression
Humorous, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Saba Kerendian

Saba Kerendian

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach to therapy is warm, collaborative, and trauma-informed. I help clients better understand their emotions, patterns, and nervous system responses...”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Creative, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers
Jimmie Simpson

Jimmie Simpson

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach is collaborative, trauma-informed, and client-centered, blending evidence-based methods such as CBT, Trauma-Focused CBT, Motivational Interviewing, and Family Systems Therapy with creative, individualized techniques.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Direct, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Brenda Hernandez

Brenda Hernandez

Therapist

Virtual • California


As a therapist my goal is to break the stigma that comes with therapy. I strive to create a collaborative, nurturing therapeutic relationship that can help transform one's pain or uncertainties into one of healing. Life can be difficult and sometimes confusing therefore I want to create a corner where one can feel safe, understood, and free of judgement.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Direct, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Blair Wellington

Blair Wellington

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I'm a warm, compassionate therapist who believes therapy should feel like a safe place to be yourself.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Humorous, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Albert Schafer

Albert Schafer

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I understand the challenges that come with these experiences and are here to help you navigate them.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression
Empowering, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers
Elizabeth Apodaca

Elizabeth Apodaca

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Pacific Grove, CA


“As a solution focused therapist my goal is to help you uncover your true potential and lead a life that is worth celebrating.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, End of life care, Family issues
Affirming, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
Claire Garland

Claire Garland

Therapist

Virtual • California


Welcome. I'm a licensed psychotherapist dedicated to supporting people who are going through a tough life transition, whether it’s a diagnosis, relationship loss, other loss, or it’s you who have changed. You may be stressed, burnt out, depressed, anxious, and/or traumatized by what you are going through and carrying. You don’t have to do this alone. You can find your spark again. I have specialized training in somatic psychotherapy and evidence-based mindfulness therapies. As a person living with T1D, I love working with others in the diabetes community, and I understand the mental load and energy it takes, every single day.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression, Diabetes
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Aimy Jakini

Dr. Aimy Jakini

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


Hello! I’m a board-certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner providing personalized care through telehealth. I work with adults experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD and stress-related challenges. My goal is to create a space where you feel comfortable, heard, and supported without judgment. I take a collaborative approach to care and include medication management when appropriate. I also offer services in both English and Spanish.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

About our therapists located within 20 miles of Costa Mesa, CA who help people navigate grief and loss

Number of therapists within 20 miles of Costa Mesa, CA
There are over 93 therapists in Costa Mesa, CA accepting new patients.
93+
Average years in practice
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10 years
Top specialties offered
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  • 100%Grief or loss
  • 98%Anxiety
  • 95%Depression
  • 85%Stress management
  • 84%Relationship issues
Insurances accepted
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  • 97%Aetna
  • 74%Anthem Blue Cross California
  • 73%Carelon Behavioral Health
  • 58%Cigna
  • 47%Blue Shield of California
Languages spoken
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  • 97%English
  • 15%Spanish
  • 3%Farsi
  • 2%Cantonese
  • 2%Mandarin
How they see their clients
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  • 96%In-person or online
  • 4%In-person only
Provider gender
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  • 75%Woman
  • 22%Man
  • 3%Non-binary
License types
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  • 45%Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist
  • 19%Licensed Clinical Social Worker
  • 15%Clinical Psychologist
  • 13%Nurse Practitioner
  • 8%Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor
Treatment approaches
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  • 100%Individual therapy
  • 34%Family therapy
  • 26%Couples therapy
  • 15%Child or adolescent therapy

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