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Grief counselors and therapists in San Marcos, CA

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Top grief and loss counseling therapists in San Marcos, CA

Loss impacts everyone differently, and San Marcos residents deserve personalized grief therapy. Our network includes providers skilled in acceptance and commitment therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, and prolonged grief disorder treatment. With free intake consultations and sessions often covered by insurance, you can begin your healing journey without financial burden.

Dr. Steve Degelsmith

Dr. Steve Degelsmith

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I have spent more than three decades building the kind of space where adults feel genuinely heard from the very first conversation.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Diabetes
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Tatiana Bustamante

Tatiana Bustamante

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I show up for you as a calm, patient, and empathetic partner, rooted in the absolute belief that you already hold the capacity for lasting change.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, End of life care
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Antonio Shallowhorn

Antonio Shallowhorn

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach is warm, direct, and collaborative. I will integrate CBT and other evidence-based strategies to explore the patterns, experiences, and beliefs that shape how you relate to yourself and others.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Chukwuemeka Obilor

Chukwuemeka Obilor

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“My approach is founded on holistic and patient-centered concepts, resulting in a collaborative alliance that values trust and open communication.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Elyssa Melmet

Elyssa Melmet

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach is warm, collaborative, and focused on helping clients build coping skills, strengthen relationships, and create meaningful, lasting change...”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Maternal mental health
Direct, Participatory, Solution-oriented
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Nyka Saint Jean

Nyka Saint Jean

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“My approach is collaborative and grounded in partnership because I believe the best care happens when you feel empowered, informed, and genuinely part of every decision.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Joseph Ferra

Joseph Ferra

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe that every person has the inherent capacity to overcome challenges and achieve their goals...”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Direct, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Christina Picker

Christina Picker

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My style is collaborative and practical, gentle when you need support, and direct when you need clarity, so you leave sessions with insight and tools you can actually use.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, End of life care, Family issues
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Elysha Martinez

Elysha Martinez

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My goal is not to challenge your values, but to help you understand the deeper patterns underneath them so you can move forward with greater confidence, clarity, and flexibility.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Family issues
Direct, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 2 insurance carriers
Robert Vander Zwart

Robert Vander Zwart

Therapist

Virtual • San Diego, CA


Robert Troy Vander Zwart obtained his Master's Degree at Gordon Conwell Theological Seminary and has over 25 years of experience. Prior to beginning in his private practice Troy worked in a variety of clinical settings. Troy's specialty is counseling individuals with symptoms of depression and anxiety and who have experienced trauma. He also has a passion for couples counseling, marriage and pre-marriage counseling, and family therapy.

Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Affirming, Direct, Empowering
Accepts 3 insurance carriers
Victoria Leon

Victoria Leon

Therapist

Virtual • California


As a lived-experience therapist, I specialize in neurodiversity-affirming therapy for individuals navigating eating disorders, religious trauma, chronic illness, and identity exploration. My goal is to provide a brave, non-judgmental space where you can reflect on your experiences, reclaim agency over your life, and develop strategies that align with your unique strengths and values. I believe that you are the expert on your own story, and in our work together, I will encourage you to trust yourself more deeply and move toward healing in a way that feels right for you.

I offer online individual therapy for adults and teens across California and Colorado, providing accessible and affirming care that meets you where you are. Whether you're exploring your relationship with food and body, healing from religious trauma, or navigating life as a neurodivergent person, I’m here to support you with a therapy experience that prioritizes collaboration and consent.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Creative, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 1 insurance carrier

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Gricelda Alvarez

Gricelda Alvarez

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach is collaborative and compassionate. Together, we will work to develop practical coping strategies, deepen your self-awareness, and build on your strengths so you can move toward the balanced and meaningful life you deserve.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Panic disorders, Stress management
Affirming, Empowering, Holistic
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Xochitl Miranda

Xochitl Miranda

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My goal is to provide a safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental space where you feel heard, respected and understood.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Latanya Burley

Latanya Burley

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I am confident in utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Coping Skills Development with a client-centered and solution-focused approach.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Sandra Martinez Silva

Sandra Martinez Silva

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I work with adults—especially women and first-generation folks—who feel overwhelmed, stuck, or emotionally drained by anxiety, stress, burnout, and big life changes.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Empowering, Open-minded
Manuel Soto

Manuel Soto

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe the goal of therapy is to foster an environment that is safe and non-judgmental allowing clients to feel accepted and understood.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Affirming, Direct, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Bernadette Johnson

Bernadette Johnson

Therapist

Virtual • Crescent City, CA


I have 10 years of experience working with children, individuals, couples and families to using a strength-based, systems approach. For couple’s I utilize Gottman-based approaches.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Creative, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Emeka Anosike

Emeka Anosike

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“I listen first. Because I am dual-certified in both family medicine and psychiatry, I don't just look at your symptoms—I look at your whole life.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Holistic, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Larisa Escalante

Larisa Escalante

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe healing happens in safe, attuned relationships, and I work to create a space where you feel deeply seen, heard, and respected.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Direct, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Patricia Makonen

Patricia Makonen

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach is client-centered and collaborative, incorporating cognitive behavioral and strength-based techniques.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, PTSD
Empowering, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Maya Holmes

Maya Holmes

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I love providing a safe and brave space for those who are navigating grief, trauma, depression, life transitions, identity, and inherited legacy burdens.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, End of life care
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Gloria Lopez

Gloria Lopez

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My culturally sensitive approach honors each client's unique experiences, values, and attitudes, creating a safe space for transformation and healing.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 10 insurance carriers
Melissa Guyot

Melissa Guyot

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I use a combination of talk therapy and somatic practices to allow for a deeper resolution of past trauma...”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Family issues
Direct, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 1 insurance carrier

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Theresa Adeyemi

Theresa Adeyemi

Therapist

Virtual • California


Hi, my name is Theresa and I have devoted 11+ years of experience to helping individuals and families navigate life’s emotional challenges with compassion and authenticity. Grounded in both professional expertise and lived experience, I bring genuine empathy and understanding to my therapeutic work.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Julia Kamp

Julia Kamp

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I work with both civilians and military-connected clients — veterans, active duty service members, first responders, and their partners.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers
Mercedes Gonzalez

Mercedes Gonzalez

Therapist

Virtual • California


Hello! My name is Mercedes, I am a first-generation Latina Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). Hablo Ingles y Español.

I have worked with children for over 15 years and in the mental health field for the past 5 years, supporting children, teens, adults, and foster youth through a variety of emotional, relational, and life challenges. Throughout my career, I have provided individual and family therapy in community mental health settings, which has provided me the opportunity to work with individuals from diverse backgrounds and experiences.

I currently work primarily with adults navigating anxiety, depression, burnout, life transitions, and relationship challenges.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Pai Aromdee

Pai Aromdee

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Using an anti-racist and anti-oppressive lens, my approach is to de-stigmatize mental illness while highlighting your strengths and honoring lived experiences.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Direct, Empowering, Holistic
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Thomas Nash

Thomas Nash

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I seek to provide a collaborative, judgment free environment where individuals can heal from the challenges and hardships that life dishes out.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions, Depression
Direct, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Kristina Shippey

Kristina Shippey

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • San Luis Obispo, CA


As a therapist, I am passionate about walking alongside folks as they reveal their truths and vulnerabilities to themselves. I believe, and have witnessed that people are capable of long standing change with knowledge, support, and connection, and that therapy is a great place for that. You can learn new ways to manage life stressors, feel safe, gain confidence, and live a more joyful and purposeful life. I use cognitive behavioral, solution-focused, and strength-based techniques, while never ignoring the human element and connection where the real change happens.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Affirming, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 1 insurance carrier
Chrystal Crawford

Chrystal Crawford

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My goal is to meet you where you are, push you a little further, and help you move toward where you want to be—with encouragement, compassion, and clarity.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, PTSD
Empowering, Participatory, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Marcella Rodriguez

Marcella Rodriguez

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I deeply value the healing journey and believe that therapy is a collaborative process where clients are empowered to find clarity, resilience, and a sense of centeredness in their lives.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Abigail De La Cerda Orozco

Abigail De La Cerda Orozco

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I aim to create a space where unconditional support, compassion, and vulnerability exist, ultimately leading to a more empowering life.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Humorous, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Erris-Sheron Dolberry

Erris-Sheron Dolberry

Therapist

Virtual • Los Angeles, CA


“Using approaches like CBT, Motivational Interviewing, and acceptance-based strategies, I help clients understand patterns, regulate emotions, and build healthier ways of thinking and coping.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Dino Koutsolioutsos

Dino Koutsolioutsos

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I work with my clients as I talk with my friends. I am honest, I try to help them, as I would a friend, and I try to support them in their life path, no matter what that path is.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Affirming, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 3 insurance carriers
Carson Cozad

Carson Cozad

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I offer an affirming role in my client's lives highlighting each individual's areas of resilience and strength.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, End of life care, Identity issues
Affirming, Empowering, Humorous
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Cristina Bostanian-Quezada

Cristina Bostanian-Quezada

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My mission is to empower individuals to overcome challenges, build resilience, and achieve their fullest potential.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Joshua Dieterman

Joshua Dieterman

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


Hello, I'm a board-certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner whose practice is rooted in one foundational belief: every person deserves compassionate, individualized mental health care — regardless of background, circumstance, or the barriers and challenges they've faced along the way.

I focus on the treatment of depression, anxiety, and life's traumas, with a particular dedication to individuals from underserved and marginalized communities who have historically faced systemic barriers to quality mental health care.

All care is grounded in evidence-based practice, blending the most current clinical research with individualized judgment and patient-centered values. As a lifelong learner, I actively pursue continuing education and emerging best practices in psychiatric care — because excellence in medicine requires ongoing growth, humility, and a willingness to be taught by both science and the patients who make this work meaningful.

I welcome patients of all backgrounds and identities, and I am honored to walk alongside each person on their journey toward healing, wholeness, and hope.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Panic disorders, PTSD
Humorous, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Bruce Strumpf

Bruce Strumpf

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I'll provide a supportive, nonjudgmental space where we can work together to help you feel better an move toward the life you want.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions, Depression
Humorous, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Elaine Quattro

Elaine Quattro

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Life transitions can be beautifully transformative, but they can also feel incredibly heavy, confusing, and isolating.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship issues, Stress management
Affirming, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Nima Jahanforouz

Nima Jahanforouz

Psychiatrist

Virtual • California


“I believe good psychiatric care has to look at the whole person — not just symptoms, but the biological, psychological, and social forces shaping someone's wellbeing.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Direct, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

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