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Couples therapists in San Jose, CA


Top couples therapists in San Jose, CA
Navigate relationship challenges with compassionate couples therapy in San Jose. Our providers specialize in communication, trust-building, and emotional intimacy to help partners reconnect. Sessions are available within days, with most clients saving 75% through insurance.
I am dedicated to helping individuals make meaningful, lasting changes by developing coping skills that fit their unique life experiences. With over 20 years of experience in addiction treatment and mental health services, I bring a grounded, compassionate, and client‐centered approach to therapy. I believe that you know yourself better than anyone else, and my role is to support you in uncovering your strengths, healing from past experiences, and building a life that feels more balanced and fulfilling.
My specialties include substance use disorders, anxiety, PTSD, trauma, and co‐occurring mental health challenges. I am committed to helping clients improve their relationships, reduce stress, and strengthen their sense of self‐worth. I focus on the whole person—mind, body, and environment—because growth in one area naturally supports growth in all others.
I’m here to make this journey feel gentle, welcoming, and human. I keep things clear and simple so you can focus on what matters, not the overwhelm. My style is warm, encouraging, and a little poetic—because softness helps us breathe. Let’s take this step together, one calm moment at a time.
With a Masters in Holistic Counseling Psychology as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and with a Masters Certification in Intuitive and Energy Medicine (MIM) I offer an integrative approach that blends evidence based therapeutic modalities with psycho-spiritual practices to support healing, growth, and transformation for personal and spiritual development.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in California. I graduated from Alliant International University and have 12 years of experience in treatment settings ranging from residential care to routine outpatient care, treating self-harm, addiction, PTSD, anxiety, depression, relation and family conflict, life adjustments and more.
Jamila Banks is a California-licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with over 16 years of experience working in the mental health field. She graduated from the University of Southern California(USC), with a BA in Political Science and Psychology and received her master's in psychology, Marriage & Family Therapy, from the University of LaVerne, in 2011. Jamila initially began working in the mental health field in an Addiction & Treatment crisis center in 2010, working with adults battling various addictions and mental health disorders. From there, she has worked in a variety of settings, including group homes, mental health hospitals, and inpatient/outpatient centers, providing therapy in both individual and group services. Concurrently in 2010, as a case manager for a California regional center, she worked closely with both children and adults diagnosed with intellectual disabilities such as Autism and mental health disorders such as Anxiety. She has experience working with a multidisciplinary team of parents, teachers, social workers, and other practitioners in developing a collaborative plan of care. Jamila is a wife, and mother of 4, and lives her life in service through multiple vehicles of community advocacy, impact, and philanthropy. Outside of her community work, Jamila enjoys traveling, learning, making memories, exercising (gym, yoga, hiking) reading, meditating, crystal healing work, trying out new foods, and spending quality time with friends and family.
I arrive as a human first, therapist second. I consider myself a deeply attuned feeler and a lover of animals. My personal process deeply influences my process as a psychotherapist. Navigating complex trauma, navigating the world as a deep feeler, and returning to being in my body are core processes where I have transmuted pain into spaciousness.
Your goals are most important to me, but I do recommend goals when needed. I accept you just as you are. I will work together with you to achieve an improved quality of life. I have over 30 years experience working in mental health counseling, and 10 1/2 years as a licensed provider. In that time, I have learned to use a variety of modalities. I tailor the type of therapy to my client and to his/her needs, so I might introduce more than one type during our work together. The issues I work with most include depression, anxiety, and trauma, I am also certified in addiction recovery, and neurodivergent issues.
I enjoy working with individuals in the recovery community, first responders, and those who have experienced traumatic childhoods. I don't just talk the talk, I walk the walk.
My name is Sebastian Villaseñor, LCSW, and I hold an MSW from Cal State Fresno with ten years of clinical experience. I’ve worked with diverse populations in multiple settings, allowing me to adapt my approach to each client’s needs. I aim to create a supportive, welcoming therapy space where clients feel understood and empowered. Let’s work together toward growth, clarity, and lasting positive change.
I specialize in working with teens, young adults, and adult individuals. I work collaboratively to explore the underlying negative patterns that cause you to feel stuck. Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship challenges, grief, or life transitions, therapy can be a powerful space to gain insight and feel less alone.
I have been in private practice since 2006 in TX and 2025 in CA.
About our couples therapists in San Jose, CA



- 98%Anxiety
- 93%Depression
- 92%Relationship issues
- 91%Stress management
- 85%Trauma

- 98%Aetna
- 84%Carelon Behavioral Health
- 78%Cigna
- 76%Anthem Blue Cross California
- 70%Blue Shield of California

- 98%English
- 15%Spanish
- 2%Farsi
- 1%Mandarin
- 1%Korean

- 88%Online only
- 12%In-person or online

- 78%Woman
- 22%Man
- 1%Non-binary

- 58%Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist
- 25%Licensed Clinical Social Worker
- 7%Clinical Psychologist
- 7%Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor
- 3%Nurse Practitioner

- 100%Individual therapy
- 71%Couples therapy
- 61%Family therapy
- 21%Child or adolescent therapy
Frequently asked questions


Find the right couples therapist for you
Headway makes it easy to find support for your relationship — from finding the right provider, to understanding costs, to scheduling with ease.
Factors to Consider When Choosing a Couples Therapist in San Jose
Searching for couples therapists in San Jose starts with identifying what you want to work on together. Couples therapy may focus on communication, repeated conflict patterns, trust after infidelity, major life changes, parenting disagreements, or premarital concerns. If you are also comparing couple counseling San Jose, marriage counseling San Jose, or unmarried couples counseling options, look for a therapist whose profile lists specific couples experience. Not all therapists have training in couples work, so it can help to look for licensed marriage and family therapists or therapists trained in approaches like the Gottman Method or Emotionally Focused Therapy.
In San Jose, finding one therapist who works for both partners can depend on schedule, location, and appointment format. Local in-office options may be more limited in some neighborhoods, so virtual couples therapy can expand the number of therapists available across the Bay Area. As you compare San Jose couples therapy options, consider appointment availability, whether the therapist is accepting new clients, and whether they offer a brief consultation for both partners to assess fit. Reading profiles can also show how a therapist structures sessions, communicates with couples, and supports shared goals.
Couples therapy in San Jose, CA can be a significant expense without insurance. Using in-network insurance is one of the most reliable ways to reduce session costs and understand your estimated out-of-pocket cost before you book. Headway helps you search for couples therapists who accept a wide range of insurance plans, compare profiles, and book directly when you are ready. This makes it easier to find a therapist who matches your needs, works with your schedule, and is accepting new clients.
If you're experiencing or worried about violence, threats, or coercion in your relationship, couples therapy isn't usually the right starting point — individual support is safer. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788\) can help you think through next steps.
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