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Top couples therapists in Oakland, CA

Strengthen your relationship with couples therapy in Oakland. Headway connects you with 2,659 licensed therapists who specialize in communication, conflict resolution, and relationship building. Sessions are available virtually or in-person, with many providers offering free consultations and availability within two weeks.

Diane Tolentino Smith

Diane Tolentino Smith

Therapist

Virtual • California


I offer a space where rigorous thinking and genuine connection work together. I draw on psychoeducation and clinical reasoning to help adults make sense of complex patterns in their relationships, identities, and the systems that shape daily life. I see clients remotely throughout California and Nevada, with one goal: moving you from insight to sustainable progress.

Relationship issues, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Direct, Energetic, Warm
Accepts 2 insurance carriers
Sonia Kakkar

Sonia Kakkar

Therapist

Virtual • California


“With an extensive background working with teens experiencing symptoms of trauma, anxiety, and depression, I can help guide you through difficult emotional landscapes.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Challenging, Direct, Empowering
Accepts 3 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Farhad Tamadon

Farhad Tamadon

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I'm an open-minded therapist with years of experience from treating patients with severe mental disorders to clients with adjustment disorders, personality disorders, and relational issues.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Humorous, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Brian Campany

Brian Campany

Therapist

Virtual • California


I truly believe we are all connected in some way. Systemically, there are many ways to improve the way we relate to our own self, and with others. My philosophy is when I improve, everyone else around me improves. My own experiences have informed the way I approach problems and seek solutions, with the goal of being happier and performing better. Throughout my life, I’ve been in the service of others. I am a US Army Veteran and have many years experience training/development of others.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Marcus Davis

Marcus Davis

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe every person—and every couple—has inherent resilience and untapped resources, even in the midst of overwhelming challenges.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Identity issues
Empowering, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Melissa Sadikoff

Melissa Sadikoff

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe therapy can make a real difference when clients commit to the process. It isn't easy, but I've seen it help people face challenges, heal, and grow into their best selves.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression
Empowering, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Karen Barnoy

Karen Barnoy

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe therapy is an opportunity to better understand yourself, reconnect with your strengths, and create meaningful change in your life.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Creative, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Sabrina Tumelson

Sabrina Tumelson

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“My goal is not just to reduce symptoms, but to empower you with the understanding and tools you need to thrive.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Roxana Khadjehnouri

Roxana Khadjehnouri

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach to therapy is warm, empathetic, and genuine, fostering a safe and supportive environment for my clients.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
Ana Godoy

Ana Godoy

Therapist

Virtual • California


Hello. My name is Ana and I am a bilingual Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (128445), in the beautiful state of California. I have been in the counseling and social work field for 25+ yrs. Simply stated, I was born to do therapy, it is a gift and an honor. I am a safe, trusting and caring person, that is able to connect with a diversity of people. I have worked with children, teens, elderly, foster care, gang members and most recently, death row inmates in prison.

I have found, through many of those experiences that emotional pain, feeling alone and experiencing anxiety or depression, is common even amongst many variables. I know that the desire to live a deeper, peaceful and meaningful life can also be a motivating and driving force. I too have done much of that internal work and reflection in my life. I have learned that it is OK to be just me without pressure, more compassion and living the authentic life I deserve. I would love the same for you.

Relationship issues, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Direct, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Nicole Seale

Nicole Seale

Therapist

Virtual • Pasadena, CA


“I help individuals and couples who are struggling with anxiety, codependency, relationship challenges, and the effects of toxic or emotionally abusive dynamics.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Family issues, Identity issues, Men's issues
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Da Yeon Kwon

Da Yeon Kwon

Therapist

Virtual • California


Hello! I'm a bilingual (English/Korean) licensed marriage and family therapist with 8 years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families. My passion is helping you achieve your goals and cultivate emotional well-being. I invite you to reach out if you're ready to make positive changes in your life—I'm here to support you every step of the way.

Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers
Desiree De Leon

Desiree De Leon

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I specialize in working with individuals navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, life transitions, and identity exploration, with a deep commitment to supporting women's experiences, including infertility, pregnancy, and postpartum.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Danielle Cohen

Danielle Cohen

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I aim to help you cultivate self‐love, recognize your inner strengths, and understand the beliefs and behaviors that shape your life.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Family issues
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Victoria Phillips

Victoria Phillips

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe healing begins by truly meeting you where you are. My first priority is building a genuine, trusting connection...”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Challenging, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Susan Wrenn

Susan Wrenn

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach is warm, collaborative, and deeply attuned to your unique story. Together, we create a safe, non-judgmental space where healing, clarity, and growth become possible.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Dr. Mutiat Olawunmi

Dr. Mutiat Olawunmi

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“I believe that mental health support is as crucial as physical health, and that healing—whether through ADHD treatment, anxiety management, depression care, or insomnia therapy—begins with being heard, respected, and understood.”
ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Eating disorders
Participatory, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Pamela Davis

Pamela Davis

Therapist

Virtual • California


Great to meet you!

I am Pamela and am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). I have worked with teens and adults for over 20 years. I have experience in working with clients with anxiety, depression, motivation, self-esteem, and confidence. I have worked at schools for over 19 years with students aged 12 and older and very much enjoy working with school-aged students.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Energetic, Inquisitive, Solution-oriented
Accepts 10 insurance carriers
Vanessa Davis

Vanessa Davis

Therapist

Virtual • California


I work with children, adolescents, and adults navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, and life transitions! I am also experienced in supporting individuals facing relationship challenges, identity development, and difficulties with emotional regulation. As a Queer therapist, I'm passionate about working with the LGBTQ+ population. I am drawn to this work because I value the depth and resilience within each person’s story. My approach is grounded in attachment-based theory and informed by evidence-based practices, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.

Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Eating disorders, Family issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
AJ (Amberle J) Wagner

AJ (Amberle J) Wagner

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe therapy works best when it feels like a partnership, so I approach each session with curiosity, collaboration, and respect for your unique experiences.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 10 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Britanny Wilson

Britanny Wilson

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • Beverly Hills, CA


“With over 15 years of experience in mental health care—including my time at UCLA Neuropsychiatric Hospital—I bring a compassionate, client-centered approach to every session.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Deborah Reisfeld

Deborah Reisfeld

Therapist

Virtual • California


“During the first session, clients be invited into a welcoming environment centered on safety and trust.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Rita Balakhane

Rita Balakhane

Therapist

Virtual • California


“You are meant to live a happy and fulfilling life. Life is precious and time is limited, so every moment is an opportunity to create meaning, connection, and joy.”
Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Eating disorders, Family issues
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Maria Maguire

Maria Maguire

Therapist

Virtual • Santa Rosa, CA


I’m grateful to have a career that allows me to be authentically myself and spend my days talking deeply about things that matter. I love working with motivated, bright people who know they have a lot to offer, but feel a bit blocked. I find great joy in helping people unblock to find ease and authenticity in their own lives.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Holistic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 2 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jenelle Deilgat

Jenelle Deilgat

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I'm a direct and empathetic therapist focusing on creating a collaborative space where you feel heard and understood.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Direct, Humorous, Inquisitive
Accepts 12 insurance carriers
Maxwell Cadena

Maxwell Cadena

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I care deeply about creating a space where people feel understood - not just as a presenting concern, but as a whole person.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Emily House

Dr. Emily House

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I aim to create a space grounded in empathy, safety, curiosity, and trust, where you can show up as you are without judgment.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Humorous, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Ligia Hernandez

Ligia Hernandez

Therapist

Virtual • California


I am someone who wants to support personal growth in others. Life is rough and we don't always listen to our heads and that's okay. I am someone who tries to meet clients where they are and not judge.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Direct, Humorous, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Sophia Kubes

Sophia Kubes

Therapist

Virtual • California


If you’re struggling with your relationship with food, your body, or feeling stuck in cycles of restriction, bingeing, or guilt, you are not alone—and you don’t have to face it by yourself. In my private practice, I specialize in working with individuals navigating eating disorders and disordered eating.

I provide compassionate, individualized therapy for adolescents and adults experiencing anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, chronic dieting, and body image concerns. In addition to eating disorder treatment, I work with children, teens, and adults facing anxiety, depression, trauma, personality disorders, substance use, and challenges related to identity and the LGBTQIA+ community. I am committed to creating an affirming, inclusive space where clients of all backgrounds feel seen, respected, & supported.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jeff Wilfong

Jeff Wilfong

Therapist

Virtual • Sacramento, CA


Therapy reduces suffering and creates possibility for healthy changes. It is one of the best investments that you can make as you gain awareness and learn about problematic patterns. Everyone is at their own change-readiness level and I will support you where you are at. I am familiar with most psychological issues or relationship concerns, as I have worked in numerous settings and generally I have said "Yes!" to everyone along the way.

Qualities:

  • 18+ years of experience
  • Good listener and attentive
  • Direct and honest
  • Calm and grounded
  • Engaged and active during the session
  • Utilize mindfulness-based interventions
  • Easy-going
  • Good boundaries
  • Non-judgmental
  • Solution-focused
  • Experience working with people from many cultures and backgrounds, political affiliations, religions and more.
  • LGBTQ+ friendly

Please reach out via email or text. I return all messages in a prompt manner.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Direct, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Yanina Lambert

Yanina Lambert

Therapist

Virtual • California


I’m so glad you’re here. I’m Nina, a licensed therapist who is passionate about helping people feel better and live more fulfilling lives. I’ve worked with individuals from diverse backgrounds and offer services in both English and Spanish. My goal is to support your well-being by helping you build skills, navigate challenges, and create healthier, more meaningful relationships.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Direct, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Andrea Lapinski

Andrea Lapinski

Therapist

Virtual • Pasadena, CA


I have over 30 years of clinical, counseling and administrative experience working with individuals and couples, addressing the unique issues related to their unique life experiences. I have extensive professional and personal experience with military families and veterans. I understand first-hand the struggles of grief and medical conditions that impact all aspects of life. I have supported chronically and terminally ill patients, individuals living with cancer or chronic medical diagnoses, as well as parents experiencing infertility, peripartum, and postpartum depression. Whether dealing with life transitions, parenting, depression, anxiety, or divorce, or simply seeking to express yourself and feel more confident, I am here to walk with you, provide insights, and support you toward lasting change.

Relationship issues, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Open-minded, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Seth Gold

Seth Gold

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • N Hollywood, CA


“My goal is to help clients build insight, resilience, and the tools necessary to achieve their personal goals and improve overall functioning and quality of life.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Holistic, Inquisitive, Open-minded
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Munju Anna Chung

Munju Anna Chung

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach to therapy is holistic and integrative... Exposure and Response Prevention, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Solution-Focused, and Trauma-Informed.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, End of life care, Grief or loss
Empowering, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Lauren Hanson

Lauren Hanson

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Using evidence-based tools like Narrative and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, along with creative Art Therapy interventions, I help you disrupt old thought patterns and reclaim your narrative.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, End of life care, Family issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Michael Wood

Michael Wood

Therapist

Virtual • Laguna Niguel, CA


My style is collaborative, client-centered, positive-energy, and solution-focused. I support my clients in developing solutions based on their goals and aspirations. My ideal client is one who is willing to "go deep," to learn about aspects of personality, behavior, and character that can contribute to developing a more profound sense of joy and fulfillment. Many of my clients are searching for meaning and purpose of in their lives. Its exciting and rewarding work. On a personal level, I am warm, caring, compassionate, and non-judgmental. I read widely and draw from the fields of neurobiology, addiction medicine and positive psychology.

I love working with couples experiencing relationship distress, communication challenges, and seeking improved emotional intimacy. I specialize in working with individuals who struggle with addictions of all kinds, both substance and behavioral. I work well with individuals seeking to lower their anxiety, tackle their depression, and recover from grief and trauma.

If you are experiencing relationship issues, the aftermaths of trauma, depression, or anxiety, please reach out; you can feel better and achieve a greater degree of self-acceptance, self-esteem, and discover your purpose and meaning in life.

I have personal experience in the business world and artistic expression.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Rachel Gren

Rachel Gren

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I blend Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and other modalities to address the needs of the individual or couple.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Grief or loss
Affirming, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Candice Kimbell-Awoleye

Candice Kimbell-Awoleye

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Using a compassionate person-centered approach, I help clients gain insight into their thoughts, build effective coping skills, and work toward meaningful, lasting change.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Rebecca Chavez

Rebecca Chavez

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe therapy should be both supportive and empowering providing a safe space while equipping individuals with strategies to overcome barriers and strengthen resilience.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Dr. Sybil Stafford

Dr. Sybil Stafford

Therapist

Virtual • Stockton, CA


“I've worked with at risk populations who seem to be misunderstood whether you're a victim of crime or a veteran coping with PTSD.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Humorous, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book

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Find the right couples therapist for you

Headway makes it easy to find support for your relationship — from finding the right provider, to understanding costs, to scheduling with ease.

Factors to Consider When Choosing a Couples Therapist in Oakland, CA

Searching for couples therapists in Oakland starts with naming what you and your partner want to work on. Couples therapy in Oakland may focus on communication, recurring conflict patterns, trust after infidelity, major life transitions, parenting disagreements, or relationship stress. Not all therapists have specific training in couples counseling, so look for licensed marriage and family therapists or therapists who list couples-focused approaches like the Gottman Method or emotionally focused therapy in their bios.

In a mid-size city like Oakland, the right fit often depends on both clinical match and logistics. You may prefer an office near downtown, Rockridge, Temescal, or another part of the East Bay, or you may want virtual appointments that fit both partners’ schedules. As you compare Oakland therapists, look at appointment availability, session structure, and whether a brief initial consultation is offered for couples. Reading therapist profiles can also help you understand how each therapist works with partners and what to expect in sessions.

Couples counseling in Oakland, CA, can be a significant expense without insurance. Using in-network insurance is one of the most reliable ways to reduce session costs and understand what you may pay before you book. Headway helps you compare therapists who offer relationship counseling in Oakland, review bios, check estimated out-of-pocket costs, and book directly when you’re ready.

If you're experiencing or worried about violence, threats, or coercion in your relationship, couples therapy isn't usually the right starting point — individual support is safer. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788\) can help you think through next steps.

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