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Couples therapists in Oakland, CA

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Top couples therapists in Oakland, CA

Strengthen your relationship with couples therapy in Oakland. Headway connects you with 2,893 licensed therapists who specialize in communication, conflict resolution, and relationship building. Sessions are available virtually or in-person, with many providers offering free consultations and availability within two weeks.

Marina Dormer

Marina Dormer

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and have specialized training in eating disorders, addiction, EMDR, and couples therapy.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Inquisitive, Open-minded
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Heather Nisenbaum

Heather Nisenbaum

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I bring real-world experience from medical and psychiatric settings, blending practical problem-solving with the understanding that lasting change comes from a strong, ongoing therapeutic relationship.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, End of life care, Family issues
Humorous, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Dr. Forogh Rahim

Dr. Forogh Rahim

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Our sessions are a warm, collaborative space where you can show up as your full self without judgment.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Grief or loss
Affirming, Holistic, Inquisitive
Accepts 1 insurance carrier
Shawn Redfield

Shawn Redfield

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I primarily use Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help you build new skills and create space for what matters most.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Eating disorders
Empowering, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jarfa Wabs

Jarfa Wabs

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I understand the inner world and the outer pressures at the same time: the nervous system and the org chart, the family story and the performance review.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Melissa Coulson

Melissa Coulson

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My style is direct, positive, and warm with a focus on supporting clients while holding them accountable to their goals for treatment.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, End of life care
Affirming, Direct, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Lara Sayles

Lara Sayles

Therapist

Virtual • Los Angeles, CA


“Lara has a compassionate, straightforward, and strength-based approach, tailoring treatment uniquely to each client.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Family issues
Direct, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Leah Stryer

Leah Stryer

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I strive to be "that person" by providing a non-judgmental, warm, and compassionate environment that fosters growth.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Juliette Portnoy

Juliette Portnoy

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I create a warm, non judgmental therapy space to support you in recentering yourself to feel empowered in your healing and next steps.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Affirming, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Adriana Rubio

Adriana Rubio

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I have a background in trauma work with Child Parent Psychotherapy, Trauma Focused CBT, and Brainspotting certified.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Claudia Menjivar

Claudia Menjivar

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I approach therapy and the client with hope and optimism. I am here to provide concrete tools and help you understand your symptoms better.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, PTSD
Direct, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Dr. Niki Malek

Dr. Niki Malek

Psychologist

Virtual • California


I have a strong track record of working with parents, building relationships and connecting with youth who are reluctant or nervous about therapy. I have a doctorate in Clinical Psychology and Masters in Education and Childhood Development. I've worked as a therapist in Jr. High and High School settings and currently work in private clinic to heal family relationships. I give you the tools to be kinder to yourself and step back into your life refreshed and empowered.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Gina Zirpoli Woodford

Dr. Gina Zirpoli Woodford

Psychologist

Virtual & in-person • San Diego, CA


I am a clinical psychologist working in San Diego, with over 20 years of experience. I earned a BA in Psychology from University of California Santa Barbara, and a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from Alliant International University (formerly California School of Professional Psychology). I completed a postdoctoral fellowship in substance use disorders at the San Diego Veteran's Affairs Healthcare System. I have expertise in working with depression, anxiety, mood disorders, substance use problems, relationship issues, and assertiveness. I also conduct psychological testing for questions around ADHD, Autism, mood disorders, giftedness, learning problems, and personality issues, among others. I believe psychotherapy is a collaborative process to help clients understand themselves better, achieve goals, and become one's best self.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Marni Freedman

Marni Freedman

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe it's incredibly brave to reach out for help—and that seeking therapy is one of the most hopeful acts a person can take.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Depression, Family issues, Grief or loss
Creative, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
Sonia Trotter-Giron

Sonia Trotter-Giron

Therapist

Virtual • Watsonville, CA


“My approach in therapy is, initially, to establish a healhy therapeautic relationship with clear boundaries and expectations to support clients to build a safe space in therapy.”
Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Eating disorders
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Munju Anna Chung

Munju Anna Chung

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach to therapy is holistic and integrative... Exposure and Response Prevention, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Solution-Focused, and Trauma-Informed.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, End of life care, Grief or loss
Empowering, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Stacie Dawes

Stacie Dawes

Therapist

Virtual • California


I am deeply committed to helping individuals reconnect with themselves, understand the emotions beneath their experiences, and develop effective coping tools that support greater happiness and well-being. I have been licensed since 1998 and specialize in anxiety, depression, trauma, and PTSD.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, End of life care
Energetic, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Juli Agajanian

Juli Agajanian

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Los Alamitos, CA


“I am easy to talk to and will use some humor in therapy, but I am also an active part of the therapy session.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Eating disorders, Family issues
Challenging, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 2 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Paul Remmele

Paul Remmele

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe personal growth can occur by alternately focusing on thoughts, emotions and/or behavior. However, in my graduate studies, subsequent training, and my own personal psychotherapy, I learned to value attachment orientated therapy...”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Cristal Guerrero

Cristal Guerrero

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Whittier, CA


“As a first-generation Mexican American and mental health therapist, I understand how culture, identity, and family dynamics can shape our inner world.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Direct, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Amore Stasilli

Amore Stasilli

Therapist

Virtual • California


“You have the power and the resources to heal - let's work together to maximize them and create a life for you that aligns with your values and goals.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Grief or loss
Empowering, Humorous, Inquisitive
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Dr. Perrine Portillo

Dr. Perrine Portillo

Psychologist

Virtual • Auburn, CA


I use an integrative, holistic, trauma-informed, and culturally aware approach. My style is warm, empathetic, and thoughtful, as well as active, pragmatic, and concrete. I foster a safe environment for deep reflection and for developing and implementing the necessary tools to encourage desired change.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Holistic, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 1 insurance carrier

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Hanna Jeong

Hanna Jeong

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I am especially passionate about validating and affirming the lived experiences of LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC communities.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Holistic, Open-minded
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jacqueline Amin

Jacqueline Amin

Therapist

Virtual • California


My passion lies in working with clients who need assistance with personal empowerment and identity development. My goal is to instill hope by identifying areas of strength, resilience, and capacity for positive change. Effective therapy takes effort and commitment from both the therapist and the client.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Inquisitive, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
Aubrey Koel

Aubrey Koel

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My style is relaxed, warm, and refreshingly candid. We'll use a mix of humor, honest feedback, and genuine connection to cut through the noise and get to the heart of what's holding you back.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 2 insurance carriers
Palmer Frankel

Palmer Frankel

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I want to know what your goals are in therapy, (those may change some). I will explain how I work and why I use scientifically proven modalities.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Stress management
Creative, Direct, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Meghan Malloy

Meghan Malloy

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Research over the course of decades indicates success in therapy is primarily determined by the quality of relationship between therapist and client.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Family issues, LGBTQIA+, Women's issues
Inquisitive, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jeremy Fain

Jeremy Fain

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I help clients build resilience, self-compassion, and clarity using an existential, strengths-based, and solution-focused approach.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Creative, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Alyssa Beck

Alyssa Beck

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I help adults and teens who privately carry stress, relationship strain, or old patterns that no longer fit who they're becoming.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Cultural & ethnic issues, Family issues, Identity issues
Affirming, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Carolina Moxley

Carolina Moxley

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Carolina specializes in relationally focused therapy... helps them develop healthy relational skills so that they may enjoy more fulfilling relationships.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Susan Rome

Susan Rome

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My therapeutic approach is deeply rooted in a holistic model that prioritizes mind, body, and spirit exploration and harmonization.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Family issues, Women's issues
Empowering, Inquisitive, Open-minded
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Michael Herrera

Michael Herrera

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I am warm, friendly, and passionate about my work. I am creative in techniques and I use humor to facilitate the exploration of concerns.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Challenging, Humorous, Participatory
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Thanh Mai

Thanh Mai

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • Pasadena, CA


“My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and personalized — I believe treatment works best when clients feel comfortable, respected, and involved in their care.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Holistic, Open-minded
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Erin Beldner-Martinez

Erin Beldner-Martinez

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Huntington Beach, CA


“I'm a licensed therapist who believes therapy works best when clients feel safe, understood and are met with compassion.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Maternal mental health, PTSD
Empowering, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Misty Batch

Misty Batch

Therapist

Virtual • California


“The quality of the therapeutic relationship is extremely important when working on issues that are of concern.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers
Jennifer Hellman

Jennifer Hellman

Therapist

Virtual • California


I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with experience working in community mental health, co-occurring substance use treatment, and residential care settings. I work with adults experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, substance use challenges, mood disorders, relationship stress, and major life transitions.

I believe therapy works best when clients feel heard, respected and supported without judgement. My approach is collaborative, trauma-informed, and tailored to each client's unique needs and goals. I draw from CBT, motivational interviewing, and strengths-based approaches to help clients build insight, emotional stability, and healthier coping strategies.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Empowering, Inquisitive, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Lucila Esquivel

Lucila Esquivel

Therapist

Virtual • Pasadena, CA


“I create a welcoming and friendly environment where you can feel comfortable speaking what's truly on your heart and mind without judgment.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Holistic, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Amie Deitel

Amie Deitel

Therapist

Virtual • Newbury Park, CA


“My goal is to help my clients achieve more satisfying relationships with oneself, children, partner, parents, colleagues, friends, and society.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, PTSD
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Valorie Herd

Dr. Valorie Herd

Psychologist

Virtual • California


“My work is rooted in the whole person approach (e.g., mind, body, spirit, inside and outside of systems), with special focus on emotional wellness, tangible daily tools, and realistic commitments to help you feel whole, in control, and connected.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Dr. Cynthia Curnan

Dr. Cynthia Curnan

Therapist

Virtual • California


I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a PhD and 34 years of experience, offering telehealth therapy to clients in California. I'm most in my element with people who are learning their needs, what's getting in their way and feel ready to meet their challenges. My clients come from all walks of life. I help those who are too hard on themselves to become their own best friend.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

About our couples therapists located within 20 miles of Oakland, CA

Number of therapists within 20 miles of Oakland, CA
There are over 22 therapists in Oakland, CA accepting new patients.
22+
Average years in practice
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10 years
Top specialties offered
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  • 95%Stress management
  • 95%Relationship issues
  • 91%Anxiety
  • 86%Depression
  • 82%Grief or loss
Insurances accepted
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  • 95%Aetna
  • 55%Providence Health Plan
  • 50%Anthem Blue Cross California
  • 45%Carelon Behavioral Health
  • 32%Curative
Languages spoken
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  • 100%English
  • 9%Hebrew
  • 9%Russian
  • 5%Farsi
  • 5%Spanish
How they see their clients
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  • 95%In-person or online
  • 5%In-person only
Provider gender
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  • 64%Woman
  • 36%Man
License types
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  • 55%Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist
  • 23%Clinical Psychologist
  • 18%Licensed Clinical Social Worker
  • 5%Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor
Treatment approaches
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  • 100%Individual therapy
  • 55%Couples therapy
  • 41%Family therapy
  • 27%Child or adolescent therapy

Frequently asked questions

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Find the right couples therapist for you

Headway makes it easy to find support for your relationship — from finding the right provider, to understanding costs, to scheduling with ease.

Factors to Consider When Choosing a Couples Therapist in Oakland

Searching for couples therapists in Oakland starts with naming what you and your partner want to work on. Couples therapy in Oakland may focus on communication, recurring conflict patterns, trust after infidelity, major life transitions, parenting disagreements, or relationship stress. Not all therapists have specific training in couples counseling, so look for licensed marriage and family therapists or therapists who list couples-focused approaches like the Gottman Method or emotionally focused therapy in their bios.

In a mid-size city like Oakland, the right fit often depends on both clinical match and logistics. You may prefer an office near downtown, Rockridge, Temescal, or another part of the East Bay, or you may want virtual appointments that fit both partners’ schedules. As you compare Oakland therapists, look at appointment availability, session structure, and whether a brief initial consultation is offered for couples. Reading therapist profiles can also help you understand how each therapist works with partners and what to expect in sessions.

Couples counseling in Oakland, CA, can be a significant expense without insurance. Using in-network insurance is one of the most reliable ways to reduce session costs and understand what you may pay before you book. Headway helps you compare therapists who offer relationship counseling in Oakland, review bios, check estimated out-of-pocket costs, and book directly when you’re ready.

If you're experiencing or worried about violence, threats, or coercion in your relationship, couples therapy isn't usually the right starting point — individual support is safer. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788\) can help you think through next steps.

1 Cost may vary based on your location, age, and insurance coverage.