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Couples therapists in Oklahoma City, OK

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Top couples therapists in Oklahoma City, OK

Strengthen your relationship with evidence-based couples therapy in Oklahoma City. Headway connects you with 226 licensed therapists trained in approaches like the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Sessions are available virtually or in-person, with many providers offering free consultations and next-day availability.

Tammi Young

Tammi Young

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 4.7 mi away • Oklahoma City, OK


“I love helping people who are survivors of sexual abuse or domestic violence because I get to watch God's healing power in action...”
PTSD, Trauma
Empowering, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Mary Sabin

Mary Sabin

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 2.3 mi away • Oklahoma City, OK


“I offer a warm, down-to-earth, and practical approach. I use evidence-based practices, but our work won't be one-size-fits-all.”
ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Affirming, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Gina Pazzaglia

Gina Pazzaglia

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 6.6 mi away • Oklahoma City, OK


“My style is direct, compassionate, and collaborative—I will support you while also gently challenging you to grow.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Creative, Empowering, Holistic
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Mia King

Mia King

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 4.8 mi away • Oklahoma City, OK


“I believe that a sense of connectedness to others is vital for one's mental health and enjoy helping clients to restore their sense of connection whether it be within themselves or their relationships.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Elizabeth Butler

Elizabeth Butler

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 4.6 mi away • Del City, OK


Hello, I’m Elizabeth Ashley Butler, a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with nine years of experience in the mental health field and five years as a fully licensed therapist. My work is grounded in the belief that a strong and healthy client-therapist relationship is essential to successful outcomes in counseling. I see my role as a facilitator—creating a safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental space that fosters honesty, trust, healing, and personal growth.

I currently provide therapy to individuals, families, couples and adolescents from diverse ethnic, cultural, and socioeconomic backgrounds. I specialize in working with clients facing challenges related to trauma, anger, anxiety, depression, PTSD, OCD, eating disorders, obesity, stress, life transitions, communication issues, workplace concerns, LGBTQ+ matters, and various mental health diagnoses.

Clinically, I draw from a range of evidence-based approaches tailored to each client’s needs. My core modalities include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and Functional Family Therapy (FFT), along with other integrative techniques as appropriate.

From both personal and professional experience, I’ve come to understand that connection is foundational, acceptance is transformative, and meaningful change—while often challenging—is possible. Change can lead to healing, emotional strength, and a higher quality of life. It also opens the door to new opportunities and helps us break free from generational cycles that no longer serve us.

It would be my privilege to walk alongside you on your journey toward healing, self-awareness, and growth.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Open-minded, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Bree Dosser

Bree Dosser

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 5.8 mi away • Oklahoma City, OK


“My goal is to create a space where you feel safe, seen, heard, supported, and able to explore your circumstances without fear of judgment.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Holistic, Inquisitive, Participatory
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Jeff Plunkett

Jeff Plunkett

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 8.5 mi away • Midwest City, OK


It seems like life should be better than this - I have heard some version of this sentence from every client, couple, or family for more than two decades of counseling. They believe that life and relationships should function better and are trying to figure out how. The clients I have seen are struggling with relational dysfunction, anxiety, depression, grief, or the residue of trauma. Many of them feel lonely, confused, and hopeless about one or several issues within their story. Many of the stories are very hard and painful. Understandably, they all want to find a better way to live their lives and change the story.

I have studied far beyond the minimum so that I can genuinely help people create transformation in their lives and relationships. I don't just help them feel better today, but I give them systems that can work for a lifetime. Life can be better, as hundreds of former clients can confirm. I help people design a transformed life.

I recognize that for many, fundamental transformation feels inaccessible and unrealistic. Many of the clients that I have helped in the past thought the same thing. They now have a new story to tell themselves and others. Let's design your life transformation together.

Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Empowering, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Donna Daniels

Donna Daniels

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 8.5 mi away • Midwest City, OK


“Discovering the root of a problem can assist an individual in discovering their true selves and abilities to live a happy, complete life.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 14 insurance carriers
Omari Cole

Omari Cole

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 12 mi away • Edmond, OK


“My therapeutic approach is rooted in genuine honesty, unwavering neutrality, and a relaxed sense of presence.”
ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Stress management
Direct, Empowering, Humorous
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Debra Lamar

Debra Lamar

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 10 mi away • Oklahoma City, OK


“I believe you're not broken—you're someone doing your best, and sometimes you just need a kind, steady guide when paths get rocky.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 14 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Christine Custred

Christine Custred

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 12 mi away • Edmond, OK


“I use both Cognitive and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps clients identify and reframe unhelpful thought patterns, while Dialectical Behavior Therapy adds powerful tools for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and...”
Direct, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Lynly Grider

Lynly Grider

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 4.7 mi away • Oklahoma City, OK


“I have a special passion for supporting military families and families with special needs, recognizing the unique challenges they face.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression
Empowering, Energetic, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Emillia Hacker

Emillia Hacker

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 19 mi away • Norman, OK


Hello, my name Emillia Hacker and I have over 10 years of experience in acute crisis intervention, inpatient, and intensive outpatient treatment settings. I am a graduate of Southern Nazarene University with a bachelor's in Family Studies and Gerontology and a master's in counseling psychology. I have a wide breath of experience and specialize in the treatment of symptoms of depression, anxiety, OCD, PTSD, eating disorders, self-harm, chronic suicidal ideations, and substance abuse. I am effective with personality disorders and childhood trauma. I have worked extensively with military and first responders, and their families and I am a STAR trained military provider. I have also worked with First Americans across the state of Oklahoma and carry specialized training in working with addictions and families who have experienced generational trauma.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Creative, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Laura Black

Laura Black

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Stillwater, OK


I love working with clients to help make improvements in their lives. I hold a safe space for clients to talk about difficult issues. The turnaround for clients from the first day to completion of therapy is inspiring.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Affirming, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Emily Montgomery

Emily Montgomery

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma City, OK


“I focus on the connection between how you think, what you feel, and what you do — because that intersection is typically where the most meaningful change becomes possible.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Grief or loss
Affirming, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 12 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
James Clare

James Clare

Therapist

Virtual • Duncan, OK


I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in the State of Oklahoma. I am currently employed by Gillispie Counseling Services. Please call 580-736-8102 for appointment information. My focus is "systemic" because I believe all aspects of the environment contribute to the individual. I have a master's level education in Marriage & Family Therapy. I have experience treating children, adolescents, adults, and couples with diverse backgrounds and ranges of concerns.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Creative, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Jill Thomas

Jill Thomas

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


Hi! My name is Jill Thomas. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I graduated from Boise State University in 2013 and received an advanced degree in Business from Vanderbilt University in 2020. I am trained in perinatal mental health, EMDR, Polyvagal Theory, DBT, CBT and utilize somatic therapies whenever I can. I am a yoga teacher and find movement to be a valuable tool.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression
Direct, Holistic, Inquisitive
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Tracy Harper

Tracy Harper

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe therapy should feel both safe and productive — a place where you are deeply understood while also challenged to grow.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Kristal Hamm

Kristal Hamm

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach is primarily client-centered, integrating Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Therapy, and Interpersonal techniques.”
Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Grief or loss
Affirming, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Todd Smetana

Todd Smetana

Therapist

Virtual • Tulsa, OK


I help people move from simply coping to genuinely thriving. I hold a Master's in Human Relations with an emphasis in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from the University of Oklahoma, along with advanced training in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT). My background spans neurological rehabilitation, residential behavioral health, crisis intervention, and telehealth — and my experience outside of clinical work gives me a grounded, practical understanding of stress, leadership dynamics, and personal growth. I work with adults and youth ages 8 and older, and I'm currently accepting new clients.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Lauren Robinson

Lauren Robinson

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I use humor and positive/affirming approaches to help my clients feel safe and comfortable in each session...”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Humorous, Open-minded
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Ed Callahan

Dr. Ed Callahan

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“Much of my work is with neurodivergent people and the families around them — autistic teens and adults, including Level 1 and late-identified presentations, along with ADHD, demand avoidance, and burnout.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Affirming, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Charity Danker

Charity Danker

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I help individuals and couples move from overwhelm, anxiety, and disconnection into clarity, confidence, and emotional balance.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, End of life care
Direct, Empowering, Inquisitive
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
James Flip San Filippo

James Flip San Filippo

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe lasting growth happens when we understand the patterns that have shaped our lives and begin replacing them with healthier ways of thinking, communicating, and responding to challenges.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Chelsea Turner

Chelsea Turner

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor with experience working as counselor in group settings as well as various ages from kids to adults.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Direct, Humorous, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Angie Kemp

Angie Kemp

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 13 years of experience, I provide a warm, supportive, and nonjudgmental space where you can feel heard, understood, and respected.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Inquisitive, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Lauren Lara

Lauren Lara

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I am compassionate, relatable and genuinely interested in getting to know whomever I get to work with.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Delicia Porter

Delicia Porter

Therapist

Virtual • Del City, OK


“My goal is to provide a safe, judgment-free space where you feel heard, supported, and empowered to take your next step forward.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Humorous, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Sydney Hatchel

Sydney Hatchel

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach is collaborative, strengths-based, and tailored to each client. I draw from CBT, trauma-focused therapy, family and relational approaches, and other evidence-based techniques...”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Somer Robb

Somer Robb

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


I believe everyone has a story to tell and the power to write their own future. I have over ten years experience in the mental health field and have been a licensed therapist for five years. I work with all age groups and like to meet individuals where they are, and walk with them through their journey to better mental health.

Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Jennifer Hendrix

Jennifer Hendrix

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“Therapy shouldn't be scary or intimidating! I believe it is a place to step back, reflect and restore balance...”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Creative, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Sheila Hodge-Windover

Sheila Hodge-Windover

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


As a Licensed Marital and Family Therapist, my goal is to help you uncover your true potential and build a life worth celebrating.

I specialize in helping individuals, couples, and families understand and resolve current challenges by exploring the long-standing patterns and perceptions that may be holding you back.

By integrating complementary therapy techniques, I provide a supportive space to work through difficult situations and move toward a more fulfilling future."

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Holistic, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Tiffany Shepherd

Tiffany Shepherd

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My style is calm, compassionate, and non-judgmental. I help clients manage anxiety, depression, stress, grief, trauma, and major life transitions by combining evidence-based practices with genuine connection.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Kristi Patovisti

Kristi Patovisti

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Tulsa, OK


“I am passionate about creating a safe, compassionate space where you can feel seen, heard, and supported.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Brandi Duah-Boakye

Brandi Duah-Boakye

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe everyone has the ability to change when they are given the right tools, support, and motivation.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Tiamara Drew

Tiamara Drew

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Lawton, OK


“My approach is collaborative and affirming, creating a supportive space where we can explore your experiences together and develop meaningful strategies for healing and growth.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Eating disorders, Family issues
Challenging, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Natasha Heyer

Natasha Heyer

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I work with adults navigating anxiety, trauma, burnout, life transitions, relationship challenges, religious trauma, and neurodivergence.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Energetic, Holistic, Open-minded
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Michelle Anderson

Michelle Anderson

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


Hi, I’m glad you’re here. Hola, me alegro estás aquí. I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor in Oklahoma who works with individuals and families navigating anxiety, trauma, PTSD, substance use, and family-related challenges.

If life feels overwhelming, relationships feel strained, or past experiences are still affecting your present, you don’t have to carry that alone. I offer a warm, supportive, and nonjudgmental space where we can work together to better understand what’s going on and create meaningful change.

My goal is to help you feel safer, stronger, and more in control of your life moving forward.

Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Open-minded, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Mallory Williams

Mallory Williams

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“As a Black woman in the mental health field, I am deeply committed to providing a safe, culturally affirming, and judgment-free space...”
Anger management, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Physical health issues, Substance use / addiction
Direct, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 9 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Calvin Smith

Calvin Smith

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


About Me

Hello and welcome. You don't need to have everything figured out before seeking help. We can start where you are, identify what's getting in the way, and develop a path toward where you want to be.

The answers may be closer than you think.

I bring over 18 years of clinical counseling experience and graduate education in Christian Counseling, Rehabilitation Psychology, and Industrial-Organizational Psychology. My training extends to Family-Divorce Mediation, and Guardian Ad Litem applications although I am not an attorney in order to assist with the complexities of mental health challenges in divorce, custody and seperation contexts. For those seeking to restore their relationship, my Gottman relationship training focuses on helping distressed couples improve communication, reconnect, repair relationship injuries, and explore reconciliation.

My experience includes working within private practice, psychiatric hospitals, dual-diagnosis and residential programs, healthcare, and military settings. I have supported attorneys, doctors, police officers, engineers, CEO's, professional and paraprofessional workers, college students, educators, health care professionals, and veterans and active-duty service members and military families.

I work with couples, adults, seniors, adolescents, veterans, and professionals facing relationship difficulties, anxiety, depression, grief and loss, chronic illness, men's issues, workplace stress, life transitions, and faith-related concerns.

My approach is compassionate, practical, collaborative, and solution-focused. Together, we identify patterns contributing to distress, develop practical skills, strengthen healthy coping, and work toward meaningful change.

I accept Blue Cross Blue Shield, United HealthCare, Optum, Medicare, TRICARE, and many other insurance plans. Coverage can be verified before services begin.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Holistic, Open-minded, Participatory
Accepts 3 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book

About our couples therapists in Oklahoma City, OK

Number of therapists serving Oklahoma City, OK
There are over 230 therapists in Oklahoma City, OK accepting new patients.
230+
Average years in practice
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10 years
Top specialties offered
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  • 97%Anxiety
  • 94%Depression
  • 90%Stress management
  • 90%Relationship issues
  • 86%Family issues
Insurances accepted
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  • 98%Aetna
  • 98%Cigna
  • 92%Carelon Behavioral Health
  • 73%Ascension
  • 54%Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma
Languages spoken
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  • 100%English
  • 3%Spanish
  • 1%French
How they see their clients
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  • 78%Online only
  • 22%In-person or online
Provider gender
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  • 80%Woman
  • 20%Man
License types
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  • 61%Licensed Professional Counselor
  • 22%Licensed Clinical Social Worker
  • 15%Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist
  • 1%Psychologist
Treatment approaches
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  • 100%Individual therapy
  • 82%Couples therapy
  • 68%Family therapy
  • 25%Child or adolescent therapy

Frequently asked questions

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Find the right couples therapist for you

Headway makes it easy to find support for your relationship — from finding the right provider, to understanding costs, to scheduling with ease.

Factors to Consider When Choosing a Couples Therapist in Oklahoma City

Finding couples therapists in Oklahoma City starts with naming what you and your partner want to work on. Some couples look for support with communication patterns, recurring conflict, trust after infidelity, parenting disagreements, or major life changes. Not all therapists have specific couples training, so it helps to look for licensed marriage and family therapists or therapists who list couples modalities such as the Gottman Method or Emotionally Focused Therapy. If you are comparing couples counseling in OKC, marriage counseling in Oklahoma City, or relationship counseling in Oklahoma City, a therapist’s bio can show whether their experience matches your goals.

Oklahoma City has many therapy options, and the number of choices can make it harder to narrow the search. For couples therapy in OKC, the right match also needs to work for both partners’ schedules, location preferences, and appointment format. Some couples prefer an in-person office, while others choose virtual sessions to make scheduling easier across work, childcare, or commute needs. As you compare Oklahoma City couples counseling options, review availability, whether the therapist is accepting new clients, and whether they offer a brief consultation to talk through fit before booking.

Couples therapy in Oklahoma City can be a significant cost without insurance. Using in-network insurance is one of the most reliable ways to reduce session costs and get clearer pricing before care starts. Headway helps you compare therapists who provide couples therapy, marriage counseling, and relationship counseling in OKC, with insurance details verified before you book. You can review bios, see appointment times, check estimated out-of-pocket costs, and book directly when you are ready.

If you're experiencing or worried about violence, threats, or coercion in your relationship, couples therapy isn't usually the right starting point — individual support is safer. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788\) can help you think through next steps.

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