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Family therapy and counseling in Honolulu, HI


Top family therapists in Honolulu, HI
Strengthen family bonds in Honolulu with evidence-based therapy from 141 licensed providers on Headway. Our therapists specialize in family dynamics, communication, and relationship repair across neighborhoods like Waikiki, Downtown, and Kailua. Access flexible virtual or in-person sessions with an average savings of 75% through insurance.
As a clinician, the most important thing I can give to my clients is trust. Trust that I can hold space for them while they do their work. Trust that I have taken care of myself so that they do not feel the need to take care of me during their healing process. Trust that I have done the work necessary to provide them with best practice, therapy techniques, models, and delivery of care.
Aloha! As a clinician with over 18 years of experience, my passion is working with children and families. Healthy families are the core unit of our society and can break negative patterns for ourselves and future generations, and I believe that early intervention can dramatically change the trajectory of a young person’s life. I feel privileged to help my clients achieve their goals and improve their lives by providing the professional guidance needed to navigate behavioral challenges, identity struggles, and family transitions.
I want my clients to feel safe and empowered during their time with me, knowing they have an experienced advocate committed to their success. My background as a UCLA graduate has allowed me to serve families across various life stages, from young children to adults navigating relationship hurdles. When I am not in the office, I find peace and restoration in the natural beauty of the islands, which keeps me grounded in my work.
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with experience in outpatient behavioral health and healthcare leadership in Hawaiʻi. I work with adolescents and adults facing challenges such as anxiety, depression, stress, life transitions, relationship concerns, and difficulties with self-esteem or emotional well-being.
I believe people are capable of growth and resilience, even during difficult periods of life. My goal is to help clients gain insight, develop effective coping strategies, and move toward lives that feel more balanced, fulfilling, and aligned with their values.
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Starting therapy can feel vulnerable, and finding the right therapist matters. My goal is to create a safe and supportive space where you feel heard, respected, and understood.
Bio of Antoinette M. Rodrigues, MA, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist:
Toni was born and raised on the island of O’ahu. She obtained her Bachelor’s Degree in Social Sciences from Hawaii Pacific University. She completed her Master’s Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Argosy University Hawaii. She became a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Hawaii in 2018. Toni’s clients describe her as genuine and compassionate. Toni is married and has an adult son. She has lived and worked on Maui for over 30 years, for a variety of State and non-profit agencies, and in private practice. She enjoys Hawaiian music and hula.
If you've been holding a lot for a long time, therapy can be a place where you finally exhale. I work with women and teens who are feeling overwhelmed, stuck, anxious, or simply not like themselves. Whether you're navigating stress, relationship struggles, life transitions, or that constant sense of emotional overload, our work together can help you feel more grounded, supported, and clear about what comes next. Clients often describe me as compassionate, calming, and easy to talk to.
I am a licensed psychologist, educator, and researcher dedicated to helping individuals navigate life's challenges while building a stronger connection to themselves and their values. My professional background includes working in healthcare, higher education, community mental health, and veteran settings, giving me experience supporting clients from diverse cultural, racial, gender, and sexual identity backgrounds.
I specialize in working with anxiety, depression, trauma, life transitions, relationship concerns, identity exploration, and issues affecting LGBTQIA+ individuals. My research and clinical work have focused on understanding how culture, identity, and lived experiences shape mental health and well-being.
I believe therapy should be a space where you feel seen, respected, and empowered. Whether you're navigating a difficult transition, healing from past experiences, exploring your identity, or seeking greater fulfillment in your relationships and daily life, I strive to provide a supportive environment where meaningful growth can occur.
About our family therapists in Honolulu, HI



- 94%Anxiety
- 90%Stress management
- 89%Relationship issues
- 89%Depression
- 85%Family issues

- 100%Aetna
- 93%Cigna
- 91%Carelon Behavioral Health
- 88%Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Hawaii

- 98%English
- 4%Spanish
- 1%German
- 1%Japanese
- 1%Russian

- 93%Online only
- 7%In-person or online

- 71%Woman
- 26%Man
- 2%Non-binary

- 38%Licensed Clinical Social Worker
- 29%Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist
- 21%Licensed Mental Health Counselor
- 7%Psychologist
- 5%Advanced Practice Registered Nurse

- 100%Family therapy
- 100%Individual therapy
- 43%Couples therapy
- 24%Child or adolescent therapy
Frequently asked questions


Find the right counselor for your family
Headway makes it easier to find family-focused support — from finding the right provider, to understanding costs, to scheduling with ease.
Factors to Consider When Choosing a Family Therapist in Honolulu
Finding family therapists in Honolulu starts with understanding what your family wants to work on together. Family therapy can support parenting conflict, adolescent concerns, blended family dynamics, caregiving stress, and communication across generations. Family therapists are trained to look at patterns between family members, rather than focusing only on one person. As you compare therapists, look for listed experience with family systems, parent-child relationships, life transitions, or cultural and intergenerational concerns that match your needs.
In Honolulu and across Oahu, the right therapist also needs to fit your location, schedule, and preferred appointment format. In-person sessions may work well if you want a shared space outside the home, while virtual appointments can make it easier to include family members in different places. Family therapy may involve the full family, a few family members, or individual sessions at different points in care. Before booking, read therapist bios for details on session structure, availability, communication style, and whether they offer a free phone consultation.
Family therapy in Honolulu can be a significant investment without insurance. Using in-network insurance is one of the most reliable ways to reduce session costs. Nationally, Headway partners with a wide range of insurance plans, and you can enter your insurance details on Headway to confirm coverage in Honolulu, see which therapists are accepting new patients, and view upfront cost estimates. You can compare therapists, review bios, and book directly when you’re ready.
If anyone in your family is experiencing or worried about abuse, threats, or coercion, joint family or couples therapy usually isn't the right starting point — individual support is safer. The Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline (1-800-422-4453) and National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788\) can help you think through next steps.
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