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LGBT therapists in Durham, NC
Top LGBT-friendly therapists and psychiatrists in Durham, NC
Find affirming mental health support in Durham with 743 licensed providers experienced in LGBTQIA+ care. Headway connects you with warm, open-minded therapists who understand your unique journey, offering flexible virtual and in-person sessions to fit your life.
Clodagh O' Herlihy is a licensed Marriage and Family therapist with over 17 years of relationship counseling. She has an integrative approach with which she incorporates body mind and spirit or attitude in her work.
Clodagh works with individuals and couples. Clients that show up in her office need help with relationship conflict, abuse, trauma, anxiety, depression, infidelity and sexual intimacy.
I've been an LCSW for 25 years.
I'm an OIF/OEF Navy Veteran.
I'm experienced in treating trauma, depression, anxiety, PTSD, couples and men's issues.
I earned my BSN from Duke University in 2014, my Family Nurse Practitioner (FNP) degree from Gonzaga University in 2017, and my Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner (PMHNP) degree from Johns Hopkins University in 2020. I also completed a Plant-Based Nutrition certification through Cornell University. My background spans both community and mental health care, including experience at a large community health center in Washington, DC, where I worked with individuals from diverse backgrounds and life circumstances. My foundation in family medicine has given me extensive experience caring for people with co-occurring mental health and complex medical conditions. I also have significant experience supporting individuals who have experienced trauma and strive to provide compassionate, whole-person care that meets each patient's unique needs.
I believe everyone deserves to experience the joy and peace that comes from healing. If you're feeling stuck in darkness, weighed down by past experiences, or caught in negative thought patterns, you're not alone—and you don't have to navigate it by yourself.
For more than 34 years, I've helped individuals, primarily women, heal from trauma, build self-esteem, and create meaningful, lasting change. I have advanced training in EMDR and specialize in helping clients process traumatic experiences so they can move forward with greater confidence and emotional freedom.
My approach is holistic, recognizing the connection between your mind, body, and emotions. Together, we'll create a safe, supportive space where you feel heard, understood, and empowered to reach your therapy goals. My hope is to help you move beyond simply surviving so you can fully experience the joy, fulfillment, and life you deserve.
As a therapist, my goal is to create a space where individuals, teens, and couples feel safe, respected, and truly heard. Whether you're navigating anxiety, life transitions, relationship challenges, or just trying to find a clearer path forward—therapy can be a powerful place to reconnect with yourself and your goals.
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Find the right LGBTQ-friendly therapy provider for you
Headway makes it easier to connect with affirming therapists who understand your identity — from finding the right therapist, to understanding costs, to scheduling with ease.
Factors to Consider When Choosing an LGBTQIA Therapist in Durham, NC
Finding LGBTQIA therapists in Durham starts with identifying affirming care as a core part of fit. An LGBTQIA+-affirming therapist may support concerns related to identity, relationships, family dynamics, anxiety, depression, or gender exploration. Look for therapists who mention affirmative therapy, gender-diverse experience, WPATH training, or direct experience supporting LGBTQIA+ people. A therapist’s profile can also show whether their listed specialties, approach, and experience match what you want support with.
Durham has a strong mental health community, and finding the right match still depends on practical details like location, schedule, and appointment format. Some people prefer in-person sessions near home, work, or school, while others use virtual therapy to access a wider set of affirming therapists across North Carolina. As you compare options, look for therapists who explicitly name LGBTQIA+ care in their bios, offer appointment times that fit your calendar, and provide a free phone consultation so you can learn more before booking.
Therapy in Durham can be a significant cost without insurance. Using in-network insurance is one of the most reliable ways to lower your out-of-pocket costs and make ongoing care more affordable. Headway helps you find LGBTQIA+-affirming therapists who accept a wide range of insurance plans, are accepting new patients, and share upfront cost estimates before your first session, so you can review bios, compare fit, and book directly when you’re ready.
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