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LGBT therapists in Oklahoma

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Top LGBT-friendly therapists and psychiatrists in Oklahoma

Access inclusive mental health services across Oklahoma through Headway's network of 189 empowering providers. Whether you're seeking talk therapy, medication management, or both, our open-minded clinicians are ready to support your wellness journey. Insurance coverage available with flexible scheduling and free intake calls to get started.

Sandra Mace

Sandra Mace

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


I'm Sandra, an LCSW who believes everyone deserves an individualized approach to care — because everyone's story is different. I work with individuals navigating anxiety, trauma, grief, life transitions, and a wide range of other challenges, including those tied to identity and cultural background. I value open communication and want you to feel genuinely heard, respected, and supported. If you're ready to explore what's getting in your way and build real tools for change, I'd love to connect.

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,

Sydney Humphrey

Sydney Humphrey

Therapist

Virtual • Atoka, OK


“I want you to be comfortable in your own skin, as your own person, and it is my mission for all people to develop a genuine Love for SELF.”

LGBTQIA+, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues,

Empowering, Holistic, Humorous

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,

Brittani Woods

Brittani Woods

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I often work with high-functioning women and men, mothers, executives, leaders, athletes, and professionals who look put together on the outside but struggle with self-doubt, hidden stress, and emotions that feel out of control.”

LGBTQIA+, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues,

Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Ascension Health Plan,


Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Natasha Heyer

Natasha Heyer

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I work with adults navigating anxiety, trauma, burnout, life transitions, relationship challenges, religious trauma, and neurodivergence.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Energetic, Holistic, Open-minded

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Ascension Health Plan,

Kayla Smith

Kayla Smith

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


Kayla, a licensed Clinical Social Worker with a background in community mental health, recognized the profound disparities in access to mental health care within BIPOC communities. Inspired by a vision of creating a space where healing is both inclusive and affordable, she founded Helen’s Project with the belief that everyone deserves access to quality mental health support, regardless of their background or financial situation.​​Helen’s Project operates on the principle that culturally competent and empathetic mental health care is essential for holistic well-being. The organization collaborates with a diverse team of mental health professionals who not only possess clinical expertise but also understand the unique cultural nuances and challenges faced by the BIPOC community.

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Humorous, Open-minded, Solution-oriented

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, United Healthcare,

Amy L Settles

Amy L Settles

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My goal is to create a safe, supportive space where you feel understood, respected, and empowered to make meaningful changes.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Chronic conditions,

Affirming, Direct, Humorous

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,

Carolyn Osmanski

Carolyn Osmanski

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe that every person has the capacity for growth and healing, and my goal is to provide a safe space where clients feel heard, understood, and empowered to make meaningful changes.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Direct, Holistic, Open-minded

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Ascension Health Plan,

Vi Nguyen

Vi Nguyen

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe therapy is not about "fixing" you but helping you develop a deeper understanding of yourself, build effective coping strategies, and create a life that aligns with your values.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression,

Affirming, Empowering, Warm

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,

Angela Lockhart

Angela Lockhart

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I have extensive experience working with patients who struggle with substance abuse issues and generational trauma.”

LGBTQIA+, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues,

Direct, Empowering, Solution-oriented

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Ascension Health Plan,

Ashley Steele

Ashley Steele

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I very much like a positive and holistic approach to therapy. I think it is important to find balance in your life...”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Empowering, Holistic, Open-minded

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,


Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Candice Kemble

Candice Kemble

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My primary focus has always been specializing in treating trauma & in the last several years I have expanded...”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Direct, Empowering, Open-minded

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,


Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Michael McClendon

Dr. Michael McClendon

Psychologist

Virtual & in-person

8810 South Yale Avenue, Tulsa, OK

“My clinical and professional work has been to help people move away from mindsets fixated on the fantasy of perfectionism in order to live into a reality of grace, acceptance, and appreciation or ourselves as we are rather than who we believe we...”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Empowering, Inquisitive, Open-minded

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Carelon Behavioral Health,

Lenae Tippett

Lenae Tippett

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My style is warm, direct, and collaborative, and I aim to create an emotionally safe environment where you feel seen, supported, and empowered to take meaningful steps forward.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Affirming, Direct, Solution-oriented

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,

Suzanne Bass

Suzanne Bass

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“In our sessions, we'll look at how your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors connect, and build practical tools you can use between sessions.”

LGBTQIA+, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues,

Holistic, Inquisitive, Participatory

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Ascension Health Plan,

Gina Pazzaglia

Gina Pazzaglia

Therapist

Virtual & in-person

2310 Southwest 89th Street, Oklahoma City, OK

“My style is direct, compassionate, and collaborative—I will support you while also gently challenging you to grow.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Creative, Empowering, Holistic

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,


Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Emillia Hacker

Emillia Hacker

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 25 mi away

2300 McKown Drive, Norman, OK

Hello, my name Emillia Hacker and I have over 10 years of experience in acute crisis intervention, inpatient, and intensive outpatient treatment settings. I am a graduate of Southern Nazarene University with a bachelor's in Family Studies and Gerontology and a master's in counseling psychology. I have a wide breath of experience and specialize in the treatment of symptoms of depression, anxiety, OCD, PTSD, eating disorders, self-harm, chronic suicidal ideations, and substance abuse. I am effective with personality disorders and childhood trauma. I have worked extensively with military and first responders, and their families and I am a STAR trained military provider. I have also worked with First Americans across the state of Oklahoma and carry specialized training in working with addictions and families who have experienced generational trauma.

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Creative, Inquisitive, Warm

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Ascension Health Plan,

Don Harris

Don Harris

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I’m a solution-oriented therapist, which means I don’t want us to spend every session simply talking about what’s wrong.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Holistic, Open-minded, Solution-oriented

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,

Dr. Jason Wilson

Dr. Jason Wilson

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I am collaborative but also willing to hold accountability and provide supportive feedback and encouragement.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Affirming, Direct, Warm

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Aetna Medicare Advantage,

Megan Fisher

Megan Fisher

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I base how I work with clients off of what will work best for them. I am very authentic and specialize in trauma work, depression, and anxiety.”

LGBTQIA+, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions,

Humorous, Inquisitive, Warm

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Ascension Health Plan,


Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Charity Danker

Charity Danker

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma City, OK


“I help individuals and couples move from overwhelm, anxiety, and disconnection into clarity, confidence, and emotional balance.”

LGBTQIA+, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression,

Direct, Empowering, Inquisitive

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,

Alisha Fry

Alisha Fry

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach to therapy is person-centered and strengths-based, meaning I see you as the expert on your own life and work collaboratively with you to uncover your natural resilience, inner wisdom, and capacity for growth.”

LGBTQIA+, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues,

Humorous, Inquisitive, Warm

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,

Stephanie Crume

Stephanie Crume

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“Most people who reach out to me have been managing on their own for a while and have arrived at the point where managing is not the same as being okay.”

LGBTQIA+, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder,

Challenging, Humorous, Open-minded

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,

LeeShawn Brown

LeeShawn Brown

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I focus on developing a collaborative relationship with my client where they can feel empowered to actively participate in their therapeutic progress...”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Affirming, Open-minded, Solution-oriented

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Ascension Health Plan,

Dr. Mary Gates

Dr. Mary Gates

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I want you to feel comfortable, accepted, validated and heard. I do this by developing a therapeutic relationship based on trust.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Affirming, Open-minded, Warm

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,


Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Ernest Abunaw

Dr. Ernest Abunaw

Psychiatrist

Virtual • Oklahoma City, OK


“I am a board-certified psychiatrist with a general psychiatry residency at Oklahoma State University - Griffin Memorial Hospital and Child and Adolescent Psychiatry at the University of Oklahoma, OKC campus.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Creative, Holistic, Open-minded

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts,

Tracy Fountain MS, Lpc

Tracy Fountain MS, Lpc

Therapist

Virtual • Tahlequah, OK


“I believe that meaningful change happens when people feel genuinely accepted while also being gently supported to grow and move forward at their own pace.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Affirming, Humorous, Warm

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,

Melanie Logan

Melanie Logan

Therapist

Virtual & in-person

4815 South Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, OK

If you’re here, chances are you’re carrying a lot—responsibilities, expectations, and maybe a quiet sense that something needs to shift. You don’t have to keep doing it all the hard way.

My approach is practical, supportive, and focused on real-life change. Together, we’ll uncover the strengths you already have and build tools you can actually use—so you feel more confident, less overwhelmed, and more in control of your life.

You won’t just talk about your stress—you’ll learn how to manage it. You’ll leave our work together with a clear plan for self-care, stronger boundaries, and a deeper connection to what truly matters to you. My goal is for you to feel better, yes—but also to live better, with more ease, clarity, and fulfillment.

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LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression,

Affirming, Holistic, Inquisitive

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, United Healthcare,


Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Cantiese Burrell

Cantiese Burrell

Therapist

Virtual • Tulsa, OK


“I believe therapy should be a safe, collaborative space where you feel both supported and empowered.”

LGBTQIA+, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues,

Affirming, Empowering, Warm

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,

Tiara Delonia

Tiara Delonia

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach is rooted in trauma-informed care, which means I am deeply mindful of how past experiences may impact your present well-being.”

LGBTQIA+, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder,

Affirming, Holistic, Solution-oriented

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,

Heather Marshall

Heather Marshall

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe therapy doesn't have to feel intimidating or overly formal. ...I value genuine connections, open conversations, and meeting you exactly where you are.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Affirming, Empowering, Warm

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Ascension Health Plan,

Melanie Sutton

Melanie Sutton

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


I'm M.J. I am an affirming ally who will support you on your unique path. I have been licensed as a professional counselor since 2012; obtained a Master of Science degree in Community Counseling from Oklahoma State University in 2007; worked with a variety of people in outpatient and social services settings.

LGBTQIA+, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues,

Affirming, Empowering, Warm

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Ascension Health Plan,

Olivia Yazzie

Olivia Yazzie

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


With 22 years of experience as a clinical social worker, I help individuals navigate trauma, anxiety, depression, addiction, and challenging life transitions. I understand that reaching out for support isn't always easy, and I strive to create a welcoming, judgment-free space where you feel safe being yourself. My background in crisis intervention and working with diverse communities has shaped my compassionate, culturally sensitive approach. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, healing from past experiences, or looking to make positive changes, I'm here to help you move forward with confidence.

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Holistic, Inquisitive, Open-minded

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Ascension Health Plan,

Norma Carrillo Alvarez

Norma Carrillo Alvarez

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“Holistic counseling is utilized to provide services that embrace comprehensive strategies for well-being, recognizing the interconnections of mind, body, and spirit.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,


Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Hayley Brown

Hayley Brown

Therapist

Virtual & in-person

8211 East Regal Place, Tulsa, OK

“I have a masters of science in counseling. My niche is working with neurodivergent adults and I do EMDR to address trauma or negative core beliefs.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Grief or loss,

Holistic, Inquisitive, Warm

Accepts Aetna, Carelon Behavioral Health, Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield of New Jersey,


Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jordan Sanders

Jordan Sanders

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“Using approaches like EMDR and mindfulness, I help clients explore their identity, strengthen relationships, and move through life transitions with clarity and confidence.”

LGBTQIA+, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, End of life care,

Challenging, Empowering, Humorous

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, United Healthcare,


Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Pa'Shence Young

Pa'Shence Young

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach is warm, collaborative, and focused on equipping you with practical tools and emotional clarity.”

LGBTQIA+, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression,

Affirming, Empowering, Open-minded

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,


Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Shanti Hubbard

Shanti Hubbard

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My goal is to help clients gain a deeper understanding of their experiences and alleviate feelings of guilt and shame.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression,

Affirming, Inquisitive, Open-minded

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Ascension Health Plan,

Brittany Defillo

Brittany Defillo

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe therapy should be a safe space where you can show up as your authentic self without fear of judgment.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Creative, Empowering, Solution-oriented

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Ascension Health Plan,

Aimee Swing

Aimee Swing

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“If you're looking for a therapist who is direct, authentic, and deeply accepting, we might be a good fit.”

LGBTQIA+, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Family issues,

Challenging, Direct, Humorous

Accepts Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma, Aetna, Cigna,


Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Donita Smith

Donita Smith

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe in meeting clients where they are, without judgment, while also challenging them toward growth.”

LGBTQIA+, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety,

Affirming, Energetic, Humorous

Accepts Aetna, Cigna, Carelon Behavioral Health,

About our LGBTQIA+ affirming therapists in Oklahoma

Number of therapists serving Oklahoma
There are over 186 therapists in Oklahoma accepting new patients.
186+
Average years in practice
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10 years
Top specialties offered
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  • 100%LGBTQIA+
  • 98%Anxiety
  • 95%Depression
  • 91%Trauma
  • 89%Stress management
Insurances accepted
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  • 99%Aetna
  • 98%Cigna
  • 92%Carelon Behavioral Health
  • 72%Ascension Health Plan
  • 56%Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Oklahoma
Languages spoken
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  • 99%English
  • 3%Spanish
  • 1%French
  • 1%Vietnamese
  • 1%American Sign Language
How they see their clients
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  • 85%Online only
  • 14%In-person or online
  • 1%In-person only
Provider gender
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  • 83%Woman
  • 16%Man
  • 1%Non-binary
License types
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  • 61%Licensed Professional Counselor
  • 32%Licensed Clinical Social Worker
  • 3%Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist
  • 2%Advanced Practice Registered Nurse - Certified Nurse Practitioner
  • 1%Psychologist
Treatment approaches
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  • 99%Individual therapy
  • 48%Family therapy
  • 36%Couples therapy
  • 20%Child or adolescent therapy

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