No single technique works for everyone when it comes to dealing with anxiety attacks. The goal is to help your body and mind feel a little safer while the anxiety passes.
Notice and name what you're experiencing
Telling yourself "this is anxiety" can help you separate the feeling from the fear that something worse is happening. You don't have to talk yourself out of it. You can start by simply naming it.
Try a controlled breathing exercise
Slow, steady breathing may help your body settle. One common method is box breathing:
- Breathe in for four counts
- Hold for four counts
- Breathe out for four counts
- Hold for four counts
- Repeat for two to five minutes
If counting makes you feel more anxious, try a simpler version: Breathe out a little longer than you breathe in.
Experiment with grounding and relaxation techniques
Grounding exercises bring your attention back to the present moment. The 5-4-3-2-1 method is one option. Slowly name, out loud or in your head:
- 5 things you can see
- 4 things you can touch
- 3 things you can hear
- 2 things you can smell
- 1 thing you can taste
Progressive muscle relaxation is another option. You tense and then release each muscle group, working slowly through your body.
Lean on your support system
A quick call or text to someone you trust can help you feel less alone during an anxiety attack. You don't need to explain everything perfectly. Saying "I'm feeling really anxious right now" can be enough. If someone in your life deals with anxiety, learning how to help someone with anxiety can make it easier to show up in a supportive way.
Consider professional support when symptoms are hard to manage
If anxiety attacks happen often, last longer than they used to, or interfere with your daily life, it may be time to talk with a mental health provider. A therapist can help you understand your patterns and build coping tools. A psychiatrist or psychiatric nurse practitioner can evaluate whether medication may be part of your care.
If you're unsure where to start, it can help to decide between a therapist or psychiatrist based on your symptoms and goals.