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Many therapists were trained to view them as important clinical tools, but they’re not evidence-based.
For many years, no-harm contracts were seen as a go-to tool in therapy when working with clients experiencing suicidal ideation or self-harm. These documents, typically written agreements where clients promise not to harm themselves and to contact their therapist or emergency services if they feel at risk, were widely used with the best of intentions. But over the course of my career as a Licensed Professional Counselor, I’ve come to understand the serious limitations of these contracts and why a more collaborative, person-centered approach is not only more ethical but more effective.
No-harm contracts gained popularity in the 1990s and early 2000s as therapists, hospitals, and state agencies sought a way to formalize safety discussions and reduce liability. They were especially common in outpatient settings and among early-career clinicians, often presented as a standard part of managing suicide risk.
The premise was straightforward: Get a client to agree in writing not to harm themselves and to contact emergency services or their therapist if suicidal ideation intensified. The hope was that the document would deter self-harming behaviors and act as a therapeutic touchstone during crises.
At the time, it felt like a proactive way to protect clients and create accountability. Many of us, working in high-acuity settings, were trained to view these contracts as essential clinical tools. But their widespread use wasn't backed by strong evidence and over time, the drawbacks became harder to ignore.
While no harm contracts may still be used in some settings, they are widely considered ineffective and ethically problematic. Here’s why many therapists, including myself, have stopped using them:
I recall working with a young adult client navigating persistent suicidal ideation. When I offered a no-harm contract early in our work together, she hesitated. “I don’t want to lie,” she said. “I want to stay safe, but I can’t promise I always will.” That moment shifted how I approach suicide risk. I stopped asking for promises and started asking better questions.
Instead of using no-harm contracts, I now rely on evidence-informed, collaborative safety planning approaches. The most foundational tool in my practice is the Stanley-Brown Safety Planning Intervention (SPI), which has strong empirical support and is widely used across clinical settings, including outpatient therapy, crisis response, and primary care.
The SPI is structured yet adaptable, walking clients through six personalized steps:
This intervention is client-centered, developed collaboratively in session, and revisited regularly. It doesn't rely on vague promises but instead focuses on concrete, achievable actions.
In addition to SPI, I integrate DBT-informed skills for clients who struggle with emotion dysregulation, and I often use motivational interviewing techniques to enhance engagement around safety.
For example, a client recently developed a safety plan that included:
It was practical. It was hers. And it worked because it respected her autonomy and her lived experience.
The shift away from no-harm contracts is part of a larger, promising movement in our field: trauma-informed, collaborative care. We’re recognizing that safety isn’t imposed, it’s built through connection and trust.
I’m especially interested in the growth of digital safety planning tools, many of which now allow clients to carry their plans with them on their phones, share them with loved ones, and update them dynamically. There’s also encouraging research into peer support models that help clients build relational safety nets beyond the therapy room.
As clinicians, we’re increasingly being trained to view suicide prevention through a lens of empowerment, not control. I believe this direction will continue toward strategies that honor clients’ voices, foster resilience, and support real-world safety.
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